The One With The Candy Hearts w/ Brenda Kradolfer

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JUST BLANE: The following program
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JUST BLANE: Introducing the

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: best podcast in

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JUST BLANE: Utah.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Radio Daybreak.

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Here are your hosts, Just

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JUST BLANE: Blane and Becks.

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Ah, yes, here we go.

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It's Valentine's Day.

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We're back right here.

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Bex says it's going to be fun.

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It's gonna be a great show.

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I'm so excited.

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BECKS: I got my hearts on and my pink.

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Where's yours?

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JUST BLANE: You know me.

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I just have black, gray, white.

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But I do have the Radio
Daybreak merch shirt on.

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Radiodaybreak.

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com is up and going.

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The merch link is the merch link
working yet or is it still not on yet?

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BECKS: No, it's to to be

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JUST BLANE: announced coming soon.

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Oh man, that's awesome.

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I can't wait.

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So be on the lookout for the merch
radio daybreak merges on the way.

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But Bex, the big story right now, I
know it's Valentine's day, but the

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big story is still the Superbowl.

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Did you watch this game?

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Did you, did you see it

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BECKS: was made it Tay

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Tay

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JUST BLANE: was there.

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No, not even a problem looking
great in all black, man.

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Yes.

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Had her number

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BECKS: on

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JUST BLANE: representing.

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I loved it.

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I thought the game was amazing.

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Like they went to overtime.

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We had our guy Nick Ferguson there.

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Nick Ferguson.

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Let me tell you about what this guy did.

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He's amazing.

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He went to the Super Bowl for Radio Row.

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Not the game itself.

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He went to all the stuff around it.

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Yeah.

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He flew out at about 8 o'clock in
the morning on Sunday, game day.

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Because if you're in the media, you're
not going to the game, you get the hell

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out of there before the craziness happens.

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So he got out of there.

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Flew back to Denver, got hit, got hit
up by Fox News in France to come back

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to Vegas to do a Super Bowl recap.

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So he hopped back on a plane 12
hours later and was on TV at 4 a.

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m.

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and was back on a plane at 8 a.

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m.

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that morning to go back to Denver.

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BECKS: Ferg, if anybody can do it, that

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JUST BLANE: man can.

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I got a picture of him on the set.

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There's a picture of him on the set.

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I'll have to, I'll have to send it
out and post it, but there's a picture

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of him on the set of Fox and Friends.

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His face, like he looks so
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but he did amazing on there.

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Oh my gosh.

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It was, it was great though, but hey,
with all the T Swizzle and Travis

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Kelsey talk, love is in the air.

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Love is in the air.

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Love

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BECKS: is in the air.

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It is Valentine's Day.

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What's your favorite place
to go for Valentine's Day,

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JUST BLANE: Blaine?

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Well, I just took an anniversary trip.

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It was me and Lindsey's, well, our
anniversary's coming up this week.

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That's true.

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Yeah.

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Because of Valentine's Day, we
always have to go either side of it.

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To not have to pay those crazy rates.

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We literally got an Airbnb for about,
uh, less than half of what it would have

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been this week, this coming weekend.

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So we went to Moab last weekend.

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That's first time down there.

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You have not seen Moab yet.

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And that's not the last
time, I guarantee that.

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What did you think?

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It was like another planet.

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And here's, the thing is, I've been,
me and Lindsay got married in Iceland.

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That's right.

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So we've seen some places,
but to go to Moab was insane.

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Like it was crazy.

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What's a place that you
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What's your spot?

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Ooh,

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BECKS: here in Utah?

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Did you limit me to Utah?

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Cause I would say Italy, of course,
but I bounced over to Italy last.

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That's right.

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Can you get more romantic than Italy?

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I don't

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JUST BLANE: know.

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Very true.

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Very true.

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Well, you know what, before
we go any further on that.

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Well, we got to bring in
our Valentine's day expert.

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We've got Brenda Krodoffer, the
host of the restored wife right

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here on ride the wave media.

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She's a relationship coach,
Brenda Krodoffer, coaching.

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com.

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That's Krodoffer with a K K R a D O L F.

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BECKS: Excellent spelling.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Wow.

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Yes.

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I'm super impressed.

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JUST BLANE: That was
off the top of my head.

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That's pretty good, right?

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That was not bad.

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That's

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: amazing.

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It's like it's your last name.

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JUST BLANE: Yeah, right.

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So, Brenda, listen.

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You're the relationship coach here.

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You're the expert.

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So, where do you think One of the
most romantic, what's a couple

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of romantic places here in Utah.

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And then we'll get, and then
we'll go international, Bex.

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We'll let you say Italy.

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Okay.

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BECKS: All right.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: All right.

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So we live so close to Park City, right?

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That's like our go to.

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If we just need a weekend
getaway, Park City is magical.

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There are so many different style hotels,
even like we've been to some where it's

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like, wow, we feel like we're in Europe.

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And then others that are
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And yeah, Park City is a great place.

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I love Park City.

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JUST BLANE: know what Park City,
Park City makes me feel like when

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you're in Park City, it feels
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Like it's just, you're in
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It's nothing outside of that and
everything you need is inside of that.

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But Blaine, here's

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BECKS: the thing that we really
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listeners because people think,
Oh, Utah, greatest snow on earth.

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Park City is beautiful.

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And yes, they've got more snow up
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It's February.

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That's true.

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But we like to go for romantic
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And that's kind of the, the little
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City in the summer is beautiful.

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If you're like keeping that
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up in the spring, summer, fall.

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JUST BLANE: beautiful.

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I love that idea.

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And on the opposite side of
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because there was no one there.

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It was, it's off season and we got
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the places were closed because it's.

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It's off season, literally
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And we talked to some of the
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said, this is, we love this time.

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This is the time that local people get
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But it was amazing to be able to go
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Arches National Park and literally see the
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And we're just cruising.

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We're the only car there, but that
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to be able to, to do that in an off
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and bustle of people everywhere.

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Like all of our photos,
there's nobody in our photos.

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There's nobody out there.

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BECKS: Oh, that is romantic.

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You know what, Langston?

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That wouldn't have been on my radar.

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JUST BLANE: I'm that up.

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But it's also a little bit scary.

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It's also a little bit scary
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of nowhere with Lindsay.

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Cause you never know.

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She could snap on me at any minute, so.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Oh, I would.

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I think Lindsay needs to talk about

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JUST BLANE: that.

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You're in trouble.

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I'd love to do that.

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I'd love to do that.

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Man, but.

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Mm hmm.

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So, romantic places.

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What about outside of Utah?

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Not, and let's not go for
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I, I gave you my,

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BECKS: listen, don't you be knocking,
you see my Hawaii signs back

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JUST BLANE: here.

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No, no, I love Hawaii, but I
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about like a, a hidden secret.

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Do you, either one of you have a hidden
romantic secret place there is that

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not a lot of people know about, or?

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Oh, you don't want to tell it.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Yeah.

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BECKS: Go ahead.

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Go ahead.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Brenda.

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There's a lot of little,
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Like just, we just go over
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And there's like a lot, like we have so
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We went on a trip once.

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I wanted to go to Uri, Colorado.

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It's like this little tiny town.

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They call it the Switzerland of America.

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And that was like one of our little
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doing some slot Canyon hiking and.

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Yeah, they're like, that's
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So it's a, it's a good little drive,
but that was part of the, the fun.

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Like I love road tripping
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JUST BLANE: Yeah, that's awesome.

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That's awesome.

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That's, that's the best way to be right.

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Do you guys, do you grab a map or do
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one direction and say, let's roll.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Ooh,
I like doing that too.

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We're always looking for food places.

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It's like, where, who has good food
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and we'll just make a day trip out
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JUST BLANE: I love that.

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I love that.

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BECKS: about you Blaine?

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Do you have any top secret
places that you like to head out

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JUST BLANE: to?

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Oh, I just like it right
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This is, this is my cave.

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I like it.

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I like it.

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Honestly, Iceland.

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That's one of mine.

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That was, that was amazing.

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That was a whole other
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Lots of movies get filmed over there.

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Movies get filmed there.

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TV shows and movies are always
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BECKS: Okay, so I have to pick
your brain a little bit because

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I know you're from California.

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You've, Hollywood, right?

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LA, you've lived there.

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I hear that there are some beautiful
places in California, Monterey being one.

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I haven't had the chance to visit
Monterey yet, which is surprising

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that I haven't just ran over there
because it's not very far from one of

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our investment properties, but there's
some places right in California.

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There's gotta be.

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Oh man,

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JUST BLANE: you know what?

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One of the most fun trips you
could make romantic drives.

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Like Brenda said, get in the car
and doing a road trip with your

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husband or your significant other is
driving up Pacific coast highway the

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entire, Oh my gosh, I've done that.

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I would love to, that's so fun.

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It don't be in a hurry.

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Don't be in a hurry.

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Cause it'll say it's going to
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No, no, no, no, no.

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It's like 12.

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Like you take your time,
take your time, enjoy it.

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But you're literally

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BECKS: like Brenda's idea where I
can just like planet around food.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Strawberry stands
and the, the fruit, the produce

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stands on, on Pacific coast highway.

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Yeah.

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You got to make time to stop.

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BECKS: All right.

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JUST BLANE: They got a
strawberry festival up there.

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They got a strawberry festival
up in, Oh, I don't know.

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One of those towns on the, on the
coast there, not, not the same as

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the Humboldt, Tennessee strawberry
festival where I'm from, but, Oh yeah,

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that's the only strawberry festival.

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That's the real one.

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BECKS: We might need to hear about that.

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Hey, Utah, speaking of little quaint
places, have you been up to Bear Lake yet?

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JUST BLANE: No, I have not.

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I have not been to Bear Lake.

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Okay, so they have the

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BECKS: Raspberry Days up there.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Oh.

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BECKS: That's right.

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There you go.

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And that is beautiful.

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JUST BLANE: Now that we're
on the topic of food.

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Yes.

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What's a Valentine's Day?

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Like, what's a What's considered
a, a, a Valentine's day treat?

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How about that?

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Chocolate dipped strawberries.

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That's a, that's a one that's always.

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BECKS: I'm going to ask you guys, are you
fans of chocolate dipped strawberries?

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I'm still like on the fence about
chocolate dipped strawberries.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Yeah.

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Chocolate and fruit for me
is like a little sketchy.

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I feel like I've grown into it.

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It's like, I'm supposed to like these.

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So yeah, the taste for this chocolate
dipped strawberry, but it is, I

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totally get where you're coming from.

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Like, I don't care about this.

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BECKS: To me, the textures are
so different because you get that

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hard chunkly chunk, like chocolate,
whatever I'm trying to say.

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And then like the soft strawberry and
I'm like, I don't, I don't know if it's

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a texture thing that it's just not.

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Yeah.

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All right.

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What were you going to say, Blaine?

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JUST BLANE: No, I was just going
to say it, to me, it depends on

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what kind of chocolate it is.

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Like that's a big thing, but it is
weird that two things that taste so

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good has a little bit of a stigma
about wanting to put them together.

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Like it is, right?

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Right.

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Like that's fun.

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I

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BECKS: think they're beautiful.

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And I, and it's, I'm with you, Brenda.

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Like you, you, you like want to
love them, but then I'm like, okay,

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but I think it's a texture thing.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I could just be, what do you guys think?

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Let's hear from our listeners.

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Let us know what you

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JUST BLANE: think about them.

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Well, what about this?

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What about this?

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If you had to choose on
Valentine's Day, do you do

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chocolates or, or something else?

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Something else I'm not thinking of.

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So which one, which would you rather have?

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BECKS: Like a dark chocolate and like,
but with nuts, like dark chocolate nuts.

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Brian knows that's my love
language like dark chocolate.

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Yes, please.

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But I, here's the thing about my husband.

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He is amazing.

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Can I just say that we don't talk much
about my significant other because

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he's a little bit shy, but he's
when he surprises me with flowers.

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Let me just tell you this.

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You're going to learn a
little tidbit about me.

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Grocery store.

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Wild flowers are my absolute favorite
because you're out and about.

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It's like random occasion.

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He brings.

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flowers home.

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He was thinking about me when
he was at the grocery store and

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nothing means more to me than that.

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Like just the little 10 grocery
store flowers, wild flowers.

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They are my absolute favorite.

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Tears me up every time.

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I

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JUST BLANE: love it.

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So it's not even the flowers.

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It's just the thought that
he was thinking of you.

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Totally.

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I love that.

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What about you, Brenda?

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Chocolate or flowers?

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Ooh,
I'm, I'm the same as Bex.

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I love dark chocolate and nuts.

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Like that combo is so good.

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I don't always meet people that are like
on that, but yeah, that's my favorite too.

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I really love flowers though too.

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Flowers.

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What says, what says I love you better
than flowers, but I know some women are

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like, no, they're just going to die.

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I used to be that way.

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Don't get me flowers.

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They're just going to die.

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Like I'd rather have a house plant
or like something that I could use.

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And I didn't always appreciate
like some of these small gestures

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that my husband would do.

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And then he'd stop doing them.

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Cause I was like, want, want,
want the, but I love the effects

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that you brought that up.

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Like it's the thought behind it
that just like lights you up when

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he brings home those flowers.

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Yeah,

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JUST BLANE: Lindsay doesn't like flowers.

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She said, don't give me something dead.

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I don't want it.

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I don't want flowers.

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She's that

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BECKS: person.

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What's her love language?

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What does she like?

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JUST BLANE: Oh, little, little stuff.

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Little, yeah, toys.

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Little knickknacks.

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Like little, just little things
that are like cute or whatever, or

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had some kind of sentimental value.

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Or honestly, I could give her a rock,
like , like she, if it came from me to

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me and her, if it comes from each other,
it doesn't really matter what it is.

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Like we we're good.

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We, we we're happy about
it, so that's sweet.

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What's the best gift you guys have
ever gotten on Valentine's Day?

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That's a hard one.

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: That is a hard one.

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JUST BLANE: Because it gets to be It
physical, it could be a experience, it

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could be a whole lot of things there.

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BECKS: Yeah, I don't know that
I have an answer to that one,

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Blaine, you've stumped me.

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JUST BLANE: What would
be a good gift then?

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What would be, Bex, outside of
flowers, what do you guys consider

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a good gift for Valentine's Day?

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BECKS: So, again, you're going
to learn a little something here.

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My husband and I are not big
on the holiday, like, gifters.

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Yes, yes.

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So, my husband's love language is gifting.

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I think you and I have
talked about this, Blaine.

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And it made me very
uncomfortable, not even kinda.

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very uncomfortable
receiving gifts from him.

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Cause that's not necessarily my love
language, but then I realized like

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how that crushed him to your point,
Brenda, when I didn't appreciate

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necessarily the gifts, like I
would be worried about the cost.

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Or like the time that went into it or the,
and he's like, would you please just like,

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I'm giving you this because I love you.

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And then me receiving it.

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And my reaction is a huge part of that.

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Cause that's how he's showing me love.

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So back to your point,
he is very good at that.

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And I've had to learn to be a receiver
of that for his love language, but

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it's not necessarily on the holiday.

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He's usually an off holiday.

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random times, don't really go out
to dinner on Valentine's Day itself.

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It's in and around it
or throughout the year.

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So I liked it.

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Yeah.

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What about you guys?

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: I love that too.

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And my first, so my, my next thought
is I think the best Valentine's gift

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you can give someone is to have zero
expectations around Valentine's Day.

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Here we go.

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Now we're really loaded.

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Loaded holiday and there could be a lot
of disappointment and things going on.

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People have expectations around how, what
they want to receive or what they want to

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give and how it's going to be received.

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And so that's been a huge blessing
for me is just learning to let

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go of all my expectations around
gifts and gift giving and.

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Love languages.

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And like, I love, I love that you were
able to shift that Bex and be like, okay,

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like this is how he's showing his love.

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Like that's a gift, even if it isn't
quite what I had in mind, but yeah,

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JUST BLANE: I love, I love, we just
got advice from a relationship coach.

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Now, now we're, now we're
talking like, I love that.

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What are, are there a set amount of
love languages out there, Brenda,

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or is it four or five or like, what
are they, what are some common ones

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that we could be on the lookout for?

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: Oh gosh, I think
everybody has, I, I think there's lots

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more than probably that are even in
the book of the five love languages.

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They say five, right?

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And I think the trick is
though, to really know yourself.

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And I know a lot of people will read
that book and they'll know what their

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love languages and then they'll.

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It created an expectation around their
spouse, but like, read this book, start

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doing this different and really get into
this, like, controlling space where then

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maybe you're even pushing your spouse
away and that's not what we want, right?

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We're trying to connect.

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That's really what we all want.

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We want to connect, but it can get
dicey when you, when you, when the,

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the tools or the, the things that
are out there can create expectations

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that then hurt the intimacy and
connection in your relationship.

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You're talking about

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JUST BLANE: the, the five love languages,
the book by Gary Chapman, is that correct?

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That's the, yeah, that's the one.

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Yeah.

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If you read that book, take some advice
from it, but just don't expect it, right?

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Is that what you're saying?

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Like, don't have those expectations
because you might be disappointed.

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It's, it's that, it's that old saying
of, don't expect much and you'll

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be more excited when it happens.

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I like that.

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I like that.

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Yeah.

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But you

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BRENDA KRADOLFER: can also have
like, you can have dreams and

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visions and things that you want.

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I think for me, that was really
important to learn how to just know

498
00:17:37,985 --> 00:17:39,575
what I want and how I receive love.

499
00:17:39,575 --> 00:17:41,245
That's just good
information for me to have.

500
00:17:41,245 --> 00:17:41,705
And I can.

501
00:17:42,300 --> 00:17:45,580
And then share that, but then that
crucial piece, that hard piece, I

502
00:17:45,620 --> 00:17:47,760
think is letting go of the outcome.

503
00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,780
Like maybe I tell my husband, I really,
this is how I need to be loved and

504
00:17:51,780 --> 00:17:53,540
it doesn't always happen that way.

505
00:17:53,629 --> 00:17:56,279
And I get to choose, you know,
do I want to let that crush

506
00:17:56,300 --> 00:17:58,000
the connection or do I want to.

507
00:17:58,510 --> 00:18:01,560
You know, choose to look at it a little
differently or find other ways that

508
00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:05,210
I know that he's showing his love for
me and really focus on those instead.

509
00:18:05,950 --> 00:18:06,780
I love that.

510
00:18:06,780 --> 00:18:06,900
I

511
00:18:06,909 --> 00:18:07,329
BECKS: love that.

512
00:18:07,329 --> 00:18:12,290
And I think for us, it
was communicating, right?

513
00:18:12,300 --> 00:18:15,039
So communicating through that piece.

514
00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:20,159
So a little, we all are our
backgrounds and our experiences,

515
00:18:20,159 --> 00:18:23,830
which bring into perspective where
we're at and how we view the world.

516
00:18:23,830 --> 00:18:24,169
Right.

517
00:18:25,140 --> 00:18:31,980
So, I was raised by a single mom who
struggled for money, and so when he was,

518
00:18:31,990 --> 00:18:35,420
when my husband was gifting me, especially
when we were first dating, that made

519
00:18:35,420 --> 00:18:41,880
me really uncomfortable because I had a
very, like, highly in tuned sense of what

520
00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:46,510
things cost, and like, you only ask for,
like, what you need versus what you want.

521
00:18:46,830 --> 00:18:49,420
And so some of those things that
were ingrained at such a young

522
00:18:49,420 --> 00:18:53,170
age, like, it, it really triggered
something in me that was so

523
00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,720
Uncomfortable from a very young age.

524
00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,020
And so it's recognizing that, but
I think a big piece that you said

525
00:18:59,020 --> 00:19:01,030
is communication around that.

526
00:19:01,369 --> 00:19:04,779
Like we were able to communicate through
that and mine is acts of service.

527
00:19:04,850 --> 00:19:08,970
So I was doing all of these acts
of service for him to show my love.

528
00:19:09,270 --> 00:19:12,040
And maybe he likes to hear
words of affirmation, right?

529
00:19:12,050 --> 00:19:13,649
And quality time.

530
00:19:13,860 --> 00:19:18,070
And so it's communicating, I think
resolves a lot of those things, right?

531
00:19:18,070 --> 00:19:18,169
Like.

532
00:19:18,735 --> 00:19:23,004
Oh, I'm feeling disappointed because I
don't get X, Y, or Z in this relationship.

533
00:19:23,325 --> 00:19:24,645
No, they're doing the things.

534
00:19:24,655 --> 00:19:29,435
It just may not be in aligned with
what you were having that expectation.

535
00:19:29,644 --> 00:19:31,844
So I love what you were saying
about that, Brenda, and I'm sure

536
00:19:31,845 --> 00:19:33,264
you can say that in a more clinical

537
00:19:33,264 --> 00:19:33,584
JUST BLANE: way.

538
00:19:34,074 --> 00:19:38,349
So Brenda, so, so how do other
than the communication part?

539
00:19:38,570 --> 00:19:40,840
And just straight asking your partner,
Hey, what's your love language?

540
00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,179
How do you figure out the love language?

541
00:19:42,209 --> 00:19:45,000
Like, how do you, how do you
pick up on those signals?

542
00:19:46,120 --> 00:19:46,650
Ooh,

543
00:19:48,129 --> 00:19:50,769
BRENDA KRADOLFER: Oh, gosh,
that's a hard question.

544
00:19:50,769 --> 00:19:53,929
Blaine, how do I pick up on
those signals and how do I do

545
00:19:53,929 --> 00:19:57,719
it without trying to control
something that's not in my control?

546
00:19:57,889 --> 00:19:58,699
Yeah.

547
00:19:59,350 --> 00:20:02,480
So for me, like I can only control myself.

548
00:20:02,500 --> 00:20:04,630
I can only like really know myself.

549
00:20:04,650 --> 00:20:07,040
So it's really like getting
in touch more with myself.

550
00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,960
Like, so I love what Beck said,
like, Hey, I recognize that this

551
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,259
is coming up from childhood.

552
00:20:11,260 --> 00:20:15,150
Like I had these limited beliefs around
money and, and we talked through that.

553
00:20:15,150 --> 00:20:17,389
And it was able, you were able to,
it sounds like you were able to kind

554
00:20:17,390 --> 00:20:19,169
of think about that and identify it.

555
00:20:19,530 --> 00:20:21,390
And then it wasn't him getting in the way.

556
00:20:21,390 --> 00:20:23,540
I know we get in, we get in our own ways.

557
00:20:23,540 --> 00:20:27,090
Maybe it's our spouse that,
that is just not showing up the

558
00:20:27,090 --> 00:20:28,190
way that we think they should.

559
00:20:28,229 --> 00:20:31,170
And so, so yeah, I think
it was totally about me.

560
00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:31,770
Yeah.

561
00:20:31,770 --> 00:20:32,759
And his limiting beliefs.

562
00:20:33,260 --> 00:20:34,790
That's amazing that you
were able to see that.

563
00:20:34,790 --> 00:20:37,729
Cause I think for me and for a lot
of us, we just don't even see what's

564
00:20:37,729 --> 00:20:39,669
going on under the surface, you know?

565
00:20:40,409 --> 00:20:44,910
Um, but yeah, I think it's, for me, it's
just really important for me to know.

566
00:20:45,255 --> 00:20:48,575
To know what I need and what I
want and be able to express that

567
00:20:48,615 --> 00:20:52,695
and then really just receive what
comes to me, what comes my way

568
00:20:53,215 --> 00:20:54,465
JUST BLANE: with, with no expectations.

569
00:20:55,105 --> 00:20:55,485
BECKS: Right.

570
00:20:55,485 --> 00:20:55,895
Yeah.

571
00:20:56,375 --> 00:20:59,415
So I want, I want to throw this
out here, like Brenda, because

572
00:20:59,435 --> 00:21:00,915
this, this is what I hear.

573
00:21:00,915 --> 00:21:03,744
And I know that this is all about
love day, but this is something

574
00:21:03,744 --> 00:21:08,545
that I hear often girls night out or
what have you, where women or men,

575
00:21:08,555 --> 00:21:11,625
your partner, like if you loved me.

576
00:21:11,865 --> 00:21:13,405
you would just know.

577
00:21:13,975 --> 00:21:17,235
If you loved me, you would do the dishes.

578
00:21:17,245 --> 00:21:20,875
How do you not see that the dishes
need to be put in the dishwasher

579
00:21:20,875 --> 00:21:22,115
or the house needs to be cleaned?

580
00:21:22,335 --> 00:21:25,284
If you love me, I don't want to have to
explain myself and just you would know.

581
00:21:25,814 --> 00:21:26,115
Right.

582
00:21:26,764 --> 00:21:28,185
So what would you say to that?

583
00:21:28,185 --> 00:21:28,834
I'm sure you've seen

584
00:21:28,834 --> 00:21:30,225
BRENDA KRADOLFER: that
in your coaching too.

585
00:21:30,485 --> 00:21:31,115
Yeah.

586
00:21:31,185 --> 00:21:31,605
Oh gosh.

587
00:21:31,605 --> 00:21:32,895
And I, I did that too.

588
00:21:32,895 --> 00:21:34,335
That was like my MO.

589
00:21:34,335 --> 00:21:36,455
Like, yeah, if you loved me,
you would do these things.

590
00:21:36,465 --> 00:21:38,605
You would, you would just
know what needed to be done.

591
00:21:39,064 --> 00:21:42,445
And yeah, that's something I love to talk
about with my clients and in my workshops

592
00:21:42,484 --> 00:21:44,554
and like, how do you get what you want?

593
00:21:45,210 --> 00:21:50,129
while still letting go of another
person that has their own autonomy

594
00:21:50,129 --> 00:21:54,179
and their own way of doing things in
their own way that they grew up to.

595
00:21:54,879 --> 00:21:57,709
JUST BLANE: I love what you do as a
relationship coach because you've also

596
00:21:57,709 --> 00:21:59,899
got the thing called the preventative.

597
00:22:00,689 --> 00:22:01,090
Yeah.

598
00:22:01,100 --> 00:22:01,279
Right.

599
00:22:01,409 --> 00:22:04,339
Like you, you can be in
the best relationship ever.

600
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,950
But you could still come see you and
get something out of it because it's

601
00:22:07,970 --> 00:22:10,430
preventative for problems in the future.

602
00:22:10,430 --> 00:22:13,579
So you're trying to basically, that's it.

603
00:22:13,590 --> 00:22:16,849
It's, it's figure out what's going
to be wrong before it happens.

604
00:22:17,450 --> 00:22:18,420
That's what it sounds like to me.

605
00:22:18,540 --> 00:22:19,079
I love that.

606
00:22:19,090 --> 00:22:21,539
Like everybody needs that to me.

607
00:22:21,570 --> 00:22:22,189
Why would you not?

608
00:22:22,439 --> 00:22:22,991
Like, why would you

609
00:22:22,991 --> 00:22:23,165
BRENDA KRADOLFER: not?

610
00:22:23,165 --> 00:22:26,670
There's a lot of scary stuff that
can happen and like, not saying

611
00:22:26,670 --> 00:22:28,050
that like we're all doomed or not.

612
00:22:28,050 --> 00:22:28,310
Right.

613
00:22:28,310 --> 00:22:31,230
But like, I think, yeah, that's
how I really came into it too.

614
00:22:31,230 --> 00:22:33,930
And I discovered that there
was a lot of stuff that I.

615
00:22:34,455 --> 00:22:38,125
That I needed to turn around for me,
but I didn't know that going into it.

616
00:22:38,125 --> 00:22:40,955
It was kind of like, okay, these
people are dealing with some

617
00:22:40,955 --> 00:22:43,805
really difficult things and
they've turned their relationships

618
00:22:43,805 --> 00:22:45,595
around and made them even better.

619
00:22:46,074 --> 00:22:47,805
So yeah, there's gotta be something there.

620
00:22:47,805 --> 00:22:51,184
So I think, I think like if you already
are in a really good relationship,

621
00:22:51,185 --> 00:22:54,675
like you feel pretty good about it, but
there's, there's some things that come

622
00:22:54,675 --> 00:22:58,695
up, like you might just be missing a piece
or two or like a different perspective.

623
00:22:59,645 --> 00:23:00,475
That was really true for me.

624
00:23:01,235 --> 00:23:03,025
JUST BLANE: Do you think most
relationships can be saved?

625
00:23:04,830 --> 00:23:05,430
BRENDA KRADOLFER: I do.

626
00:23:05,550 --> 00:23:10,910
I think a lot more relationships can
be saved than, than we give credit for.

627
00:23:11,180 --> 00:23:11,610
JUST BLANE: Mm hmm.

628
00:23:11,710 --> 00:23:14,090
Cause that divorce,
what's that divorced stat?

629
00:23:14,120 --> 00:23:14,780
It's like, what?

630
00:23:15,469 --> 00:23:15,909
Crazy.

631
00:23:15,930 --> 00:23:17,340
It's a 50 percent

632
00:23:17,340 --> 00:23:18,319
BRENDA KRADOLFER: percent.

633
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:18,940
Yeah.

634
00:23:20,049 --> 00:23:22,360
JUST BLANE: You think that
could be lower if people just

635
00:23:23,039 --> 00:23:24,289
maybe communicated more, huh?

636
00:23:24,890 --> 00:23:26,679
BRENDA KRADOLFER: I do think
it could be lower, but you

637
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,190
have to have the right tools.

638
00:23:28,260 --> 00:23:33,950
Cause like there's a lot of well
meaning, really good sounding

639
00:23:33,950 --> 00:23:36,210
relationship advice out there that.

640
00:23:36,659 --> 00:23:37,990
Actually could do more damage.

641
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,290
Like, like never go to
bed angry, for example.

642
00:23:41,629 --> 00:23:45,490
That's another way of saying fight
until 4am until you're tired and

643
00:23:45,490 --> 00:23:49,080
exhausted and nobody can think straight
and everybody's hurt, you know?

644
00:23:49,589 --> 00:23:54,569
So like, I don't know, do we, do we
keep, do we keep that up or like, I

645
00:23:54,579 --> 00:23:57,059
think there's other ways around it too.

646
00:23:57,299 --> 00:23:59,679
And there's a lot of
advice out there that.

647
00:24:00,254 --> 00:24:04,534
That falls into that category, like it
sounds really good, but it's not maybe,

648
00:24:04,885 --> 00:24:10,044
maybe not the right fit for, for a
woman or for a couple of circumstance.

649
00:24:10,504 --> 00:24:10,804
JUST BLANE: Yeah.

650
00:24:10,854 --> 00:24:11,425
I liked it.

651
00:24:11,455 --> 00:24:13,143
Cause that don't go to bed.

652
00:24:13,143 --> 00:24:14,774
Don't go to bed angry.

653
00:24:14,774 --> 00:24:15,784
I never understood that.

654
00:24:15,794 --> 00:24:19,295
It's like, well then like you said,
you keep fighting, you get more

655
00:24:19,295 --> 00:24:22,534
tired, you end up saying things you
shouldn't have and you regret later.

656
00:24:23,179 --> 00:24:23,870
One way or the other.

657
00:24:23,870 --> 00:24:26,550
BECKS: And that, and that could
just divide and just drive even

658
00:24:26,550 --> 00:24:27,110
JUST BLANE: deeper wedge.

659
00:24:27,110 --> 00:24:28,129
Oh, absolutely.

660
00:24:28,130 --> 00:24:32,330
And you don't forget that when you wake
up, but I'll, I'll put us out there.

661
00:24:32,340 --> 00:24:35,070
Me and Lindsay, we had an argument the
other night and guess what we said?

662
00:24:35,399 --> 00:24:37,919
We said, we're done tonight.

663
00:24:37,919 --> 00:24:38,280
Go to bed.

664
00:24:38,310 --> 00:24:38,700
We need sleep.

665
00:24:39,149 --> 00:24:39,480
That was it.

666
00:24:39,530 --> 00:24:40,679
We need sleep.

667
00:24:40,899 --> 00:24:41,310
We woke up.

668
00:24:42,270 --> 00:24:42,850
But that was it.

669
00:24:42,850 --> 00:24:43,750
Let's do this.

670
00:24:43,750 --> 00:24:44,020
Let's

671
00:24:44,020 --> 00:24:44,760
BECKS: sleep.

672
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:46,690
For me, I better be eating.

673
00:24:46,700 --> 00:24:48,140
Don't catch me when I'm hangry.

674
00:24:48,140 --> 00:24:48,713
JUST BLANE: That's it.

675
00:24:48,713 --> 00:24:50,039
We woke up the next morning.

676
00:24:50,259 --> 00:24:51,050
Didn't say a word.

677
00:24:51,060 --> 00:24:51,689
Hugged it out.

678
00:24:51,700 --> 00:24:52,150
And that was it.

679
00:24:53,460 --> 00:24:54,999
But what if we would have went to bed mad?

680
00:24:54,999 --> 00:24:55,970
We would have fought all night.

681
00:24:55,970 --> 00:24:57,100
We would have been more mad.

682
00:24:57,430 --> 00:24:58,290
I get that, Brenda.

683
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:00,490
That's one I never understood either.

684
00:25:00,490 --> 00:25:01,430
Don't go to bed angry.

685
00:25:01,790 --> 00:25:02,899
I know the sentiment.

686
00:25:03,100 --> 00:25:04,170
Well, you might not wake up.

687
00:25:04,180 --> 00:25:04,660
Well, come on.

688
00:25:06,070 --> 00:25:06,900
We're not thinking that way.

689
00:25:08,070 --> 00:25:10,390
BRENDA KRADOLFER: Maybe we can work
through these, like, let's work it out.

690
00:25:10,410 --> 00:25:11,830
But yeah, when you're tired and

691
00:25:13,409 --> 00:25:13,960
JUST BLANE: Nothing good.

692
00:25:14,149 --> 00:25:16,639
Nothing good will happen when you're, when
you're, when you're beating it already,

693
00:25:16,679 --> 00:25:17,819
and then you're beating each other down.

694
00:25:17,850 --> 00:25:22,999
Like that's, that's mental, emotional,
physical, all of that's taking its toll,

695
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,409
so I love that you put that out there.

696
00:25:24,659 --> 00:25:25,840
I got a big question for you.

697
00:25:26,939 --> 00:25:28,659
Is love blind?

698
00:25:29,995 --> 00:25:31,784
Oh, do you watch that show, Blaine?

699
00:25:32,064 --> 00:25:33,865
No, I don't, but I've heard good things.

700
00:25:35,485 --> 00:25:37,054
BRENDA KRADOLFER: That's
my guilty pleasure show.

701
00:25:37,834 --> 00:25:39,524
Uh, Oh, I didn't

702
00:25:39,524 --> 00:25:41,605
BECKS: know that about you, Brenda.

703
00:25:41,905 --> 00:25:42,254
BRENDA KRADOLFER: I know.

704
00:25:42,414 --> 00:25:42,844
Let's dive in.

705
00:25:42,844 --> 00:25:46,694
I can't hide it, but you guys just
brought it out in the open, so here we go.

706
00:25:46,695 --> 00:25:48,125
I love it.

707
00:25:48,125 --> 00:25:49,165
Is love blind?

708
00:25:49,165 --> 00:25:52,125
Oh my gosh, I don't think it is.

709
00:25:54,210 --> 00:25:57,570
This is just my personal experience,
but I met my husband in one scenario.

710
00:25:57,570 --> 00:26:00,100
We were working together and
we could not have any kind of

711
00:26:00,100 --> 00:26:01,199
relationship with each other.

712
00:26:01,199 --> 00:26:04,719
We just knew each other and we started
liking each other and then separate ways.

713
00:26:05,100 --> 00:26:06,789
And then we hooked up again later.

714
00:26:07,134 --> 00:26:11,095
And just on the phone, cause we were
living in different states and I had

715
00:26:11,095 --> 00:26:14,504
this mental image of who he was and,
and then we're talking on the phone

716
00:26:14,504 --> 00:26:17,514
and it's, it's a little different
cause we're after, it's after this

717
00:26:17,624 --> 00:26:18,784
experience that we had together.

718
00:26:19,425 --> 00:26:23,184
And then the first time I saw him, even
though I liked him and I was like on

719
00:26:23,184 --> 00:26:24,435
board, like I was like, yeah, let's.

720
00:26:24,670 --> 00:26:25,960
So let's see where this goes.

721
00:26:26,539 --> 00:26:32,209
And the first time I saw him,
he did not look like this

722
00:26:32,219 --> 00:26:33,649
picture that I had in my head.

723
00:26:34,110 --> 00:26:37,229
And he looked so young to me.

724
00:26:37,439 --> 00:26:41,079
He was already a little bit younger
than me, but he looked like he

725
00:26:41,079 --> 00:26:42,849
was like 14 kind of a thing.

726
00:26:42,969 --> 00:26:45,120
And I was like, I just
couldn't get over that.

727
00:26:45,120 --> 00:26:46,009
Like that was really hard.

728
00:26:46,009 --> 00:26:49,869
It took, it didn't take too long before
we're just talking when it comes back.

729
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,519
But like in that moment, my love for
him or my feelings for him were blind.

730
00:26:53,539 --> 00:26:55,559
Like they'd gone out the door because.

731
00:26:56,235 --> 00:27:02,605
It wasn't matching up and then I see on
the show, yeah, we're like, it takes,

732
00:27:02,634 --> 00:27:04,795
it, it's, and it's an adjustment.

733
00:27:04,804 --> 00:27:08,145
Like there's something about,
I think there's aspects of it.

734
00:27:08,145 --> 00:27:12,435
I think parts of love are blind, can
be blind, should be blind, but if

735
00:27:12,435 --> 00:27:16,895
we're just talking about like the, the
basics, like love blind, like love is

736
00:27:16,895 --> 00:27:20,254
blind, I think physical attraction and
all those things are really important

737
00:27:20,284 --> 00:27:22,785
in a relationship and can change.

738
00:27:22,785 --> 00:27:25,585
Like, it's not like you're stuck in one.

739
00:27:25,989 --> 00:27:28,310
Version of yourself or one
way that you look, I think

740
00:27:28,310 --> 00:27:29,629
that can grow and change too.

741
00:27:29,629 --> 00:27:30,679
I, but

742
00:27:31,559 --> 00:27:35,529
JUST BLANE: I think it will, I think you
always evolve really like it should always

743
00:27:35,529 --> 00:27:35,769
BRENDA KRADOLFER: evolve.

744
00:27:36,019 --> 00:27:36,589
Yeah.

745
00:27:36,719 --> 00:27:38,379
So what do you guys think is love blind?

746
00:27:38,380 --> 00:27:39,089
Can

747
00:27:40,269 --> 00:27:40,879
JUST BLANE: you shut off?

748
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:43,249
Maybe.

749
00:27:43,909 --> 00:27:44,370
I don't know.

750
00:27:46,090 --> 00:27:48,199
BRENDA KRADOLFER: I know I might
revise my answer later after

751
00:27:48,199 --> 00:27:49,189
I think about it some more.

752
00:27:49,489 --> 00:27:50,509
Yeah, I don't know.

753
00:27:50,509 --> 00:27:52,139
BECKS: That is a tough one, right?

754
00:27:52,159 --> 00:27:53,860
Like that is pretty tough.

755
00:27:53,899 --> 00:27:54,050
Cause

756
00:27:55,175 --> 00:27:57,334
JUST BLANE: I'm going to hear from
people out there talking about it.

757
00:27:57,335 --> 00:27:57,755
Yeah, we

758
00:27:57,755 --> 00:27:59,115
BECKS: should ask our listeners what they

759
00:27:59,115 --> 00:27:59,665
BRENDA KRADOLFER: think.

760
00:27:59,735 --> 00:28:01,935
Yeah, I'd love to a big loaded question.

761
00:28:02,485 --> 00:28:03,725
JUST BLANE: Big time loaded question.

762
00:28:04,715 --> 00:28:07,025
BECKS: He's throwing all the
hard ones at you today, Brenda.

763
00:28:07,035 --> 00:28:07,805
Oh my gosh,

764
00:28:07,875 --> 00:28:08,065
JUST BLANE: please.

765
00:28:08,925 --> 00:28:10,864
I want everybody out there to
have a good Valentine's Day

766
00:28:10,865 --> 00:28:12,645
with their significant other.

767
00:28:13,665 --> 00:28:14,975
All the way through the rest of the

768
00:28:14,975 --> 00:28:15,145
BECKS: year.

769
00:28:16,665 --> 00:28:19,665
I've heard single awareness
day and go have fun.

770
00:28:19,665 --> 00:28:21,225
Go have fun with your singles too.

771
00:28:21,225 --> 00:28:22,160
Yeah, oh

772
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,514
JUST BLANE: yeah, oh yeah.

773
00:28:23,804 --> 00:28:25,275
BRENDA KRADOLFER: Huge advocate for that.

774
00:28:26,114 --> 00:28:26,595
Me too.

775
00:28:26,635 --> 00:28:27,865
Making yourself happy.

776
00:28:28,715 --> 00:28:29,955
JUST BLANE: Where can we find you Brenda?

777
00:28:30,054 --> 00:28:31,725
It's brendacraddallforcoaching.

778
00:28:31,755 --> 00:28:32,034
com.

779
00:28:32,034 --> 00:28:32,475
Where else?

780
00:28:33,175 --> 00:28:37,175
BRENDA KRADOLFER: Yep, on Instagram,
I'm just at brendacurdolfer and

781
00:28:37,305 --> 00:28:41,145
yeah, you can come check out my,
my new podcast, The Restored Wife.

782
00:28:41,534 --> 00:28:42,025
I love it.

783
00:28:42,155 --> 00:28:42,655
I love it.

784
00:28:42,965 --> 00:28:45,025
Right here on Ride the Wave Media.

785
00:28:45,065 --> 00:28:45,275
JUST BLANE: Right?

786
00:28:45,494 --> 00:28:46,104
Yes.

787
00:28:46,145 --> 00:28:46,785
I love that pod.

788
00:28:47,364 --> 00:28:48,935
I'm getting good feedback on that pod.

789
00:28:49,085 --> 00:28:49,505
Um.

790
00:28:49,515 --> 00:28:49,665
Yay.

791
00:28:50,935 --> 00:28:51,534
She texts me.

792
00:28:51,534 --> 00:28:51,995
Brenda's so funny.

793
00:28:51,995 --> 00:28:52,955
She texts me not that long ago.

794
00:28:52,955 --> 00:28:54,355
She's like, are people
actually listening to this?

795
00:28:54,355 --> 00:28:55,460
I was like, yes, they are.

796
00:28:55,460 --> 00:28:56,364
Yes, they are.

797
00:28:56,365 --> 00:28:58,155
Brenda's the quiet one
in the room all the time.

798
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,820
And then, Bex, I don't know if I've
ever told you this story, but when we

799
00:29:00,820 --> 00:29:04,670
were getting ready for Brenda's podcast
and we were picking out music, right?

800
00:29:05,090 --> 00:29:05,510
Yeah.

801
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,919
She says, I don't know if you've
heard this song or not, but

802
00:29:07,919 --> 00:29:08,629
I'm going to play it for you.

803
00:29:08,629 --> 00:29:10,709
This is what I wanted to,
what I was trying to go for.

804
00:29:11,250 --> 00:29:15,660
And then, and she hits play and ding,
ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.

805
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:16,930
Snoop Dogg and Dr.

806
00:29:16,930 --> 00:29:18,480
Dre, Steel Dre comes on.

807
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:19,770
And I'm like, I start cracking up.

808
00:29:20,100 --> 00:29:21,640
I thought Brenda was
playing a prank on me.

809
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:28,520
I don't know if you've ever
heard this song, like, I didn't

810
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:29,350
know who these guys were.

811
00:29:29,350 --> 00:29:30,360
Like I've been to Dr.

812
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,660
Dre's house, I've been, I've DJ'd
with Snoop, like I know these guys.

813
00:29:33,660 --> 00:29:35,550
But it was hilarious.

814
00:29:35,550 --> 00:29:36,022
That's

815
00:29:36,022 --> 00:29:36,967
BECKS: awesome, Brenda.

816
00:29:36,967 --> 00:29:38,650
Okay, I need to dig deeper.

817
00:29:38,650 --> 00:29:39,879
You and I gotta go to lunch

818
00:29:39,879 --> 00:29:40,409
JUST BLANE: sometime.

819
00:29:40,449 --> 00:29:41,000
She's a gangster.

820
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,830
I think Brenda's a, uh, An OG in there.

821
00:29:44,020 --> 00:29:46,640
Brenda, you should rebrand
yourself to the Love Gangsters.

822
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:47,470
I think that's what you should be.

823
00:29:48,300 --> 00:29:48,740
The Love

824
00:29:48,740 --> 00:29:49,389
BRENDA KRADOLFER: Gangsters.

825
00:29:49,389 --> 00:29:49,890
LG, baby.

826
00:29:50,685 --> 00:29:51,635
I love it.

827
00:29:51,635 --> 00:29:52,505
Yeah, let's do it.

828
00:29:52,505 --> 00:29:53,055
Let's do that.

829
00:29:53,055 --> 00:29:55,335
We could do some episodes
on being the love gangster.

830
00:29:55,335 --> 00:29:56,035
That'd be fun.

831
00:29:56,895 --> 00:29:58,675
JUST BLANE: Well, look, we're gonna
let Brett get out of here, but we've

832
00:29:58,675 --> 00:30:04,195
got a couple announcements we've got
the daybreak business community lunch

833
00:30:04,255 --> 00:30:07,495
is at Ma's pizza for every Wednesday,
one o'clock for the rest of the month

834
00:30:08,814 --> 00:30:13,725
agency Sawyer and Kaylee are coming
for the daybreak business community.

835
00:30:14,235 --> 00:30:18,555
February 22nd for a workshop
on making websites, basically

836
00:30:18,555 --> 00:30:19,485
getting your brand together.

837
00:30:19,965 --> 00:30:21,235
And there's also one more event.

838
00:30:21,325 --> 00:30:25,194
Daybreak Treasures Boutique
is hosting Heart Smart Art.

839
00:30:25,225 --> 00:30:26,174
It's Courtney Pearl.

840
00:30:26,174 --> 00:30:28,655
It's, it's her, it's her
emotional intelligence

841
00:30:28,655 --> 00:30:30,075
workshop for kids and parents.

842
00:30:30,334 --> 00:30:35,105
That's a really cool Uh, event that
Courtney's been doing there for the kids.

843
00:30:35,425 --> 00:30:38,635
It helps them express their artistic
creativity and all that kind of stuff.

844
00:30:38,965 --> 00:30:43,864
I believe that when it is
at Biscott's, it is correct.

845
00:30:45,364 --> 00:30:46,845
Yeah, there's a couple
of announces for you.

846
00:30:46,845 --> 00:30:47,974
So we'll have those up for you.

847
00:30:48,535 --> 00:30:50,195
Make sure you check
out some of that stuff.

848
00:30:50,195 --> 00:30:52,385
Make sure you go to Brenda
Crodolpher coaching.

849
00:30:52,625 --> 00:30:52,945
com.

850
00:30:52,945 --> 00:30:53,585
We'll have the link.

851
00:30:53,780 --> 00:30:55,670
In the show notes, Bex,
what you got for us?

852
00:30:55,670 --> 00:30:56,210
We'll be doing next

853
00:30:56,210 --> 00:30:56,340
BECKS: week.

854
00:30:56,340 --> 00:30:57,300
You covered it.

855
00:30:57,300 --> 00:30:58,360
You covered it, friend.

856
00:30:58,370 --> 00:31:00,080
That is, that is all we have.

857
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,179
And then just, we will announce when
our merch is available on our website.

858
00:31:03,180 --> 00:31:03,630
So

859
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:04,200
JUST BLANE: stay tuned.

860
00:31:04,420 --> 00:31:06,020
Are we doing a real estate show next week?

861
00:31:06,029 --> 00:31:06,560
We're going to talk

862
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:07,679
BECKS: to R5 Homes.

863
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:08,729
R5 Homes.

864
00:31:08,729 --> 00:31:10,339
We're going to be talking
to them next week.

865
00:31:10,339 --> 00:31:11,579
Super cool product.

866
00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:15,260
Nothing like that anywhere else in
the state of Utah that I'm aware of.

867
00:31:15,260 --> 00:31:17,190
So stay tuned for that.

868
00:31:17,220 --> 00:31:17,550
It is

869
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:18,370
JUST BLANE: awesome.

870
00:31:18,380 --> 00:31:21,869
We've been down there and I'm not a real
estate expert, but I had a good time.

871
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:22,880
I had a good time.

872
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,980
It's a, it's a cool concept.

873
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:24,600
Be here next week.

874
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:28,440
You hear that, that interview and
that conversation with our five homes.

875
00:31:28,670 --> 00:31:33,600
Once again, thank you, Brenda, for joining
us for this Valentine's day special.

876
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:34,880
Now let's go, let's go have a meal.

877
00:31:34,890 --> 00:31:36,320
Let's go find our significant other.

878
00:31:36,910 --> 00:31:38,780
Well, actually, no, no, no, we
don't do it on Valentine's day.

879
00:31:39,300 --> 00:31:41,099
We have to wait till
tomorrow or the next day.

880
00:31:41,099 --> 00:31:43,320
So we can get the 75 percent off candy.

881
00:31:43,850 --> 00:31:44,410
Hey, I'm on a budget.

882
00:31:44,790 --> 00:31:45,710
I'm a baller on a budget.

883
00:31:45,740 --> 00:31:49,239
So guys.

884
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:49,920
BRENDA KRADOLFER: Go have fun.

885
00:31:50,860 --> 00:31:51,369
JUST BLANE: I love it.