May 9, 2024

The One Who Stood Strong: Empowerment and Recovery w/ Kyrie Blaney (AUDIO ONLY)

The One Who Stood Strong: Empowerment and Recovery w/ Kyrie Blaney (AUDIO ONLY)
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The One Who Stood Strong: Empowerment and Recovery w/ Kyrie Blaney (AUDIO ONLY)

The One Who Stood Strong: Empowerment and Recovery w/ Kyrie Blaney

The episode highlights community announcements including the return of Farmers Markets to Soda Row, a podcast workshop by DBC, and the Daybreak Happenings group for local events. The main focus shifts to an emotional and empowering interview with Robyn Buckwalter from Keller Williams, discussing the 'Red Day' initiative to support foster children with duffel bags filled with essentials, aiming to replace the use of garbage bags. The effort seeks donations to make a tangible difference in these children's lives. Following this, Kyrie Blaney, dubbed the Confident Mompreneur, shares her inspiring journey of overcoming adversity, including domestic abuse and a cancer scare, to build a successful life balancing entrepreneurship with motherhood. Her story encapsulates the struggle and triumph over personal and professional challenges, aiming to inspire and support other women through her work as a motivational speaker and author.

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00:00 Welcome to Radio Daybreak: Updates and Announcements
02:29 Spotlight on Community: Empowering Foster Kids with Duffel Bags
10:27 Introducing Kyrie Blaney: The Journey of a Confident Mompreneur
16:50 Overcoming Mental Health Challenges
18:23 The Turning Point: Seeking Help and Finding Hope
20:01 Sharing the Journey: Podcasts and Public Speaking
20:37 Empowerment Through Forgiveness and Self-Reflection
22:59 Navigating the Legal System: A Survivor's Tale
29:35 Advocacy and Systemic Change: A Call to Action
31:28 Finding Healing and Empowerment Post-Trauma
33:55 Expanding Influence: Books, Podcasts, and Public Speaking
36:52 Upcoming Events and Achievements

#Podcast - #Inspiration - #Mompreneur - #Empowerment - #KyrieBlaney - #RadioDaybreak - #WomenInBusiness - #SuccessStories - #Resilience - #MompreneurGoals - #SurvivorStory - #WomenWhoInspire

 

Transcript
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. Just Blane: Alright, let's bring her in.

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Carrie Blaney, the Confident Mompreneur.

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I love that.

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Becks: Love it.

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I'm so excited she's finally joining us.

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Just Blane: Welcome.

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Welcome Carrie.

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Yeah.

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Welcome to show.

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What's a mompreneur?

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Tell me what that is.

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I love that.

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Kyrie Blaney: A mompreneur.

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Uh, it's the mom that's doing everything.

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That's what I always tell people.

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It's the moms that are
running businesses and.

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Raising babies all at the same time.

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I get it.

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Just Blane: I love it.

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That is

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Becks: awesome.

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Yeah, that is amazing.

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I was going to say you get it, Blaine.

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I get

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Kyrie Blaney: it.

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Just Blane: Yeah.

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Well, tell us what, what, what,
what journey, what led you to be a

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mompreneur and help others balance
that personal and professional life?

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What made you want to do this for people?

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Kyrie Blaney: Well,
obviously my own journey.

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I think that's usually where
it starts and why we get into

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the things that we get into.

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Um, you know, being a mom, a young
mom and working a job that just

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like wasn't fulfilling and wasn't a
great environment to be working in.

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So I went back to school when my
son was about a year and a half old.

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And as I was going to college,
I ended up starting my own non

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profit at the same time too.

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And so it was a lot that I was trying
to balance school and babies and

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businesses and all of the things
and just realize how hard it is.

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Eating

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Just Blane: and eating and sleeping.

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That wasn't part of it,

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Kyrie Blaney: right?

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There was so much going on.

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And I think anybody who is a parent
who is also doing all the things gets

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Becks: it.

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Yeah, for sure.

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That's very true.

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That is very true.

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So this started how,
how many years ago did

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Kyrie Blaney: you say?

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So the Confident Mompreneur
started about three years ago.

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Three

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Becks: years ago now.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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And

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Just Blane: you've got, you've
got multiple companies, right?

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Is that what I'm hearing?

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Kyrie Blaney: So I started a non profit
and I ran that for about two years.

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Um, and so I helped a lot of other
moms that were going to college.

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And it was a great experience.

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I did an entrepreneurship competition
with it and won some award

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money and did a bunch of stuff.

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But then I went through some big personal
changes and it was just too hard to

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balance everything all at the same time.

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So I took a step back from that one and I
went fully in on the confident mompreneur.

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Just Blane: Gotcha.

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I love it.

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Becks: No, I know that you talk
a lot because as we were talking

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before the show, you know, I have
stocked your social media pages.

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It's

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Just Blane: great.

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I love your social and
social is fantastic.

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Hey, what is your social real quick?

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Tell us what it is.

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Kyrie Blaney: The confident mompreneur.

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That's where I'm at everywhere.

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I love that.

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That's so good.

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Becks: It's so fun to watch you just in
your element and with your family and

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just the gratitude that you have and just
wholeheartedly being authentic to you.

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Like, look at me.

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I'm getting teary eyed because
it really means so much to me.

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I'm like, Blaine, we got
to have her on the show.

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Um, but that being said, I wanted
to dive into, you mentioned a

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little bit about your partner.

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Is that something that you wouldn't
mind just kind of giving us a brief

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overview of what your story is, where
you came from and how you got here?

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Kyrie Blaney: Yeah, it definitely
had its big ups and big downs.

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I think like anybody kind of goes through.

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Um, so I started my non profit.

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I finished college.

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I did all of the things.

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Um, and during that time.

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Kind of unbeknownst to
everybody around me.

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I was going through a abusive relationship
and that was really difficult.

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And I was really, that was a big motivator
for what I was doing so that I could get

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myself and my son out of that situation.

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And so I was finally able to do that and I
went through a divorce, which when you're

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going through a divorce, it's hard enough.

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And then having And abusive spouse on the
other end of it, very, very different.

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Yeah.

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And so that came with
its own set of hardships.

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There was a lot of financial
hardships, you know, mental

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abuse throughout the whole thing.

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There was a lot going on.

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And I was also going through
my own transformation.

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I had been handling somebody else's
emotions for such a long time that I

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forgot how to handle my own emotion.

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And so it's like this torrential
downpour of emotional things

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that I was going through on top
of the financial and everything.

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So it was a really
difficult period of time.

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And then, um, I ended up having some
health concerns kind of come up.

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I, uh, had a cancer scare and I always
tell people mental health and your

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physical health are so tied together
and my physical health started to go

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downhill because of my mental health.

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Um, My body was telling me I needed
to slow down, I needed to rest,

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and you know, kind of recoup from
everything that was going on.

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And so, I went through that, and
then almost immediately after all

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of this, I went through a sexual
assault and physical assault.

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Yeah, it was like one thing after
another and then of course I

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went through the court process
for my sexual lasted a full year

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Just Blane: This is she just she just told
us the plot to like the the worst horror

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movie like ever like this is oh My gosh,

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Becks: this is you know, what?

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creates

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Kyrie Blaney: warriors Mm.

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Beyond truly.

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Mm.

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Just Blane: What did you, so what
did you do to combat the, I wanna,

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I wanna find out what you did to
combat the mental health issues.

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Yeah.

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Because to me that's one of
the biggest things out there.

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Um, I think everybody's
got something like they do.

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Um, and it's, it's, it's time to like,
kind of let that rise to the surface and,

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and, and talk about that kind of stuff.

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What did you do to combat yours?

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Mental,

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Kyrie Blaney: your mental.

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Well, like he said, it's real life.

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Like, we all go through really tough,
really hard things, and you know, it

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doesn't have to be the same things
that I went through, and of course,

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I would never hope that anybody goes
through any of the things that I

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went through, but You know, we all
go through those really hard, really

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tough times, and I was not very good
about, you know, reaching out, getting

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help, talking about what was going on.

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Um, so I was not a very good example
of what to do in that situation.

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Just Blane: What do you,
what do you think, what was

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keeping you from it though?

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Let me ask, what was, what was
your, you know, stopping you there?

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Blane?

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Kyrie Blaney: Shame.

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A hundred percent shame.

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I think we all hold on to
shame really, really deeply.

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And like you said, mental health,
especially is not a topic that a lot

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of people really speak openly about.

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Um, and I'm trying to
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Again, why I do what I do because I
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and I felt like I was never going to
get out of that deep dark hole and I

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think a lot of people have been there.

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Um, it got to the point where,
um, I actually ended up attempting

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suicide because I was so far deep
in that hole and I didn't feel

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like I could get myself out of it.

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So that was where it really turned for me.

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Um, luckily I had my parents that were
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of that process and some friends that
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on me and the sheriff came into my home.

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Yeah, you can't be here alone.

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Um, we're taking you to
the mental health facility.

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And so I was actually in there for
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really started to look up for me.

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Becks: Wow.

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And I know on your podcast, and this
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what she does first and foremost,
thank you for sharing that story.

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I want to acknowledge, those
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just shared those very publicly.

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So thank you.

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I know that's not easy.

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I know it's what you do and
probably why so many people

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relate to you, but it's not easy.

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So thank

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Kyrie Blaney: you.

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Just Blane: Um, Hey, you know what?

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And I'll throw this out there too.

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If you feel this way out there, and
you're listening to this right now,

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NIMH, that's the, what is that, the
National Institute of Mental Health.

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Go to the website and get help.

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They can call 988 now.

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988 gets you to the suicide
and crisis lifeline.

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Do it now.

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Do it now.

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Somebody out there needs to hear that.

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Do it now because it's too much.

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You got too much.

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Even if you think you're at
the bottom, you still got too

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much in you to throw it away.

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You So go get some help.

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I had to throw that out there.

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Let's get, let's talk
about that podcast though.

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Sorry about that.

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Yeah.

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Becks: No, you're okay.

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And I appreciate you throwing that in.

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It's very important.

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Um, but you do feature a lot
of, um, inspiring interviews.

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Can you tell us particularly like
a memorable, you know, interview

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or experience on your podcast
or guests that you've had that

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you'd like to share or touch

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Kyrie Blaney: on?

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Oh my gosh, I've done over a
hundred podcast episodes now.

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So I've spoke to so many people.

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All incredible.

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Um, but anything

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Becks: is really impactful.

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Oh, sorry.

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Go ahead.

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Kyrie Blaney: Yeah.

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One of the ones that was most impactful
for me kind of in that moment, um,

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I met with Dean Smith who talks
about forgiveness and I was right

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in the middle of going through my
court process for my sexual assault.

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And his story is incredibly powerful.

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If you haven't heard his story,
you need to go listen to it.

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But for me during that moment, it
wasn't about finding forgiveness

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for the man who did that to me,
but rather forgiveness for myself.

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Because I think When you're in that
situation, there's so much victim blaming

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and stuff going on in society that you
automatically put the blame onto yourself.

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Um, and so there was a lot of shame for
myself around, you know, like, should I

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have gone out on a date with this person?

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Should I have done this?

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Should I have done that?

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And so there was a lot of
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that I had to learn to forget

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Just Blane: like like you thought so oh my
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but it's almost you like blamed yourself.

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You were blaming yourself in some ways

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Kyrie Blaney: absolutely Uh, you know,
like when you're in that situation it

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obviously like he was at fault there
100 but Especially when I was like going

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through the court process, I know it's
their job, but the, the court on his

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side, um, was very victim blaming, like,
you know, blaming me for going out on a

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date with this person, inviting him into
my home, um, doing this, doing that,

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and that happens so often to survivors.

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And so, We automatically just
put that blame on ourselves.

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It's like, well, maybe he's
a, he was a good person and

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this was just like an outlier.

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Um, obviously going

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Becks: through

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Kyrie Blaney: the court process, I
was like, this was such a violent act.

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I can't have been the first one that he
did this to, but there, the other women

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that he did this to before obviously
weren't able to step up and speak.

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And so that it happened to me and I
wanted to kind of put that line down so

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that it couldn't happen to anybody else.

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And that was me the only one.

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Just Blane: Where's this guy at?

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Where's he at now?

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Where's he at now?

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Kyrie Blaney: He's in prison.

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Just Blane: That's what I hope to hear.

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Kyrie Blaney: We got found guilty on three
felony counts of assault, um, which, which

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doesn't happen very often in these cases.

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So I was kind of one of very few
that got a guilty on my case.

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Um, and still even with three
felony counts of assault, he only

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got six to eight years in prison.

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Just Blane: So he'll be out doing
it again somewhere like that's.

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Yeah.

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Repeat, repeat.

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I mean, yeah.

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They have to keep up,
keep a watch on this.

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It's

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Kyrie Blaney: scary.

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Process

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Becks: though, like the strength
that you have and that you

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found where, where did you dig?

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I mean, were you, was that prior to,
were you in your facility and you

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had therapists and help and things
through that process of your sexual

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assault or did the depression where
on the timeline did that happen?

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Was it afterwards?

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So you had already found your.

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Coping

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Kyrie Blaney: mechanisms
and things prior to that.

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So I, I was assaulted in March.

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I attempted suicide in June.

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Um, we, we didn't get the, uh,
we didn't go to court until

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February of the next year.

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Um, we didn't get our
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Um, yeah, it took a year,
took a year, a whole process.

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Um, and so, no, I had.

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started the process, but I was still
in the middle of going through it

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when I ended up in the site facility.

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And that was one of the best
things that could have happened

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to me during that time, I think.

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And I don't know if people talk
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to go into a facility, but.

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It was, you know, like I had therapists
available to me all the time.

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They set me up with a
therapist outside of the ward.

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Um, when I got out, you know, I had
other people around me that were

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going to, through very similar things.

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Um, so there was that kind of sense of
community and understanding that I, I

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think when you're going through something
like that, you assume that nobody

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understands what you're going through.

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And so it was nice to have
those people around me who.

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I was like, okay, yeah, you get it.

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So it's one

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Becks: thing to go through that and
you've got your advocates and you've

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got your support and your team.

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It's a very different thing
to speak about that publicly.

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And where do you find that
courage and that strength?

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Ooh, I just got the goose bump.

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That is so empowering what you do.

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So talk a little more about that.

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I

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Kyrie Blaney: mean, you

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Just Blane: even said that some of these
women didn't step up when you did, and

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you were the one leading the charge.

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If I heard that correct, like
that's crazy already to think that.

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They're too scared or whatever it
may be Gets me amped up over it gets

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me mad for it does it does uh, you
said something go ahead and answer

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that question Go ahead and answer.

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I'm, sorry

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Kyrie Blaney: No, it's fine and you're
right, you know, like it it's kind

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of frustrating but at the same time
like as a victim myself I get how

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scary it is to step up and say those
things and especially like I said

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when you feel so alone when you're
Questioning yourself and your judgment.

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Um, it's so easy not to go through
with it, but also the reason why I do

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what I do is to help other people who
are in that situation, not feel so

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alone, to know that there are other
people out there who understand to

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show them that there's life after

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Just Blane: trauma.

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I love that.

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You said something earlier.

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Does still bother me though.

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And it's about the courts.

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And you said the other team had
to fight for, you know, that they

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had to make you look whatever.

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And I get that.

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That's their job.

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But there's a lot of that in large
portions of people in society.

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It's not just in the U S
but all over the world.

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You got people saying, Oh, well,
she shouldn't address that way.

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She, she deserved it.

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She asked for, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no.

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Never, never does anyone
ask for a sexual assault.

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Like that's not, That's not condoned
anywhere, but you got people out

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there who say those kinds of things.

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So it leaks into the
court and that bothers me.

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It bothers me because
it can't be like that.

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It shouldn't be like that.

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Kyrie Blaney: Well, and that's another big
reason why i'm doing what i'm doing is to

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create change within the systems itself
to make women feel Like they can Report

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these things, and that they're going to
be listened to, that they're going to have

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a great team on their side, that they're
going to get that guilty verdict, because

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right now, that's not, not the norm.

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It's

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Becks: true.

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It's not

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Kyrie Blaney: the norm.

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Most women, most women
don't even report it.

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If they do, they aren't listened to.

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If they do happen to get a team that
listens, To them and says, Hey, yeah, we

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actually do have enough evidence for this.

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They'll go through court and
not get a guilty verdict.

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But with another girl that I was at an
event, um, that we went through the same

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thing in practically the same timeline.

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It was about a month
apart from each other.

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She got not guilty verdict.

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And how daggers

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Becks: had the soul when you.

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Yeah.

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And you have to repeat that story and
repeat that story and repeat that story.

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You know, it's horrible.

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Kyrie Blaney: Well, and the court system
itself is such a re victimization the

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whole way through, you know, like putting
those intimate photos up in front of a

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group of strangers, you know, having to
retell that story and look the person

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that did it to you in the You know,
there's so much within that process.

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That's So hard.

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And then, like I said, even with me
getting a guilty verdict, he only got six

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to eight years into including time served.

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He can get out on, you
know, parole before that.

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So was the year that I went through
that difficult time worth it?

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You know, myself in the process,
quite literally, was it worth it?

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I have to ask.

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Just Blane: It's almost like that
year you were imprisoned in that year.

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You know what I mean?

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You were, you were technically, you
were technically imprisoned in that

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year yourself and that's Nowhere to
live either You're supposed to be free.

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You're supposed to be, you know, living
your best life as they say, but no

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you had to sit through that process.

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The system sucks.

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I'll tell you that right now.

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The system sucks.

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What are

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Becks: you doing?

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You didn't talk about, um, and I, you
know, Blaine, there, it's been broken

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and, and there's a lot about that, but
I do want to dive into, you know, what

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are you doing for advocacy and how can
we at Radio Daybreak and our listeners

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You know, here in the state of Utah and
beyond, because we've got listeners, you

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know, kind of all over now, right, Blane?

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How can we help?

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What are we doing?

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How, how do we make a change?

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What do we do?

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Kyrie Blaney: Well, I do a lot
of things, uh, just myself.

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Um, so I actually have a
local group that I work with.

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They're called safe project and
they help women who are in domestic

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violence situations, victims
of stalking or sexual assault.

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Um, So, you know,

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Just Blane: We lost a little bit
there lost the connection there

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Kyrie Blaney: those groups whether
it's that group themselves or the

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Just Blane: Pick back up right there.

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What are you talking about?

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Yeah, pick back up where you're
talking about the safe project

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Kyrie Blaney: Okay, so the safe
project is a group I work with locally.

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They helped me through
my entire court process.

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They were incredible um, but support
groups like those whether it's the safe

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project itself or your local groups
that help You know, domestic violence,

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sexual assault, anything like that.

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Um, we also need to speak up and
make changes in the system itself.

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So, talk to your local, like, government
employees, whether that's, you know,

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like, your senate, your reps, anything
like that, your local, like, city people.

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They all need to be told
that this is a problem.

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And you also need to believe survivors,
regardless of whether there's a guilty

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verdict or not, believe survivors.

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Just Blane: Yeah, I love that.

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You got to absolutely do
that because That's tough.

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If you get a not guilty then
that person who Filed the charges

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then they look like they lied.

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I get that like that's It's not
always true because it could have

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got tossed out on some stupid
technicality that the system put

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in place and then It's it's messy.

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It's a messy Messy, messy situation.

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Um, one more question.

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Oh, go ahead.

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Go ahead, Becks.

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Oh, no,

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Becks: I, I really appreciate you diving
into, you know, your story and a lot of

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the heavy, heavy parts, but I do want to
transition just a little bit and tell me.

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You know, where are your life's
at now and how that's changed for

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you and the positivity that you
share on your social media page.

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You know, speak a little bit to that.

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Kyrie Blaney: Yeah, uh, so since
going through all of this, you

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know, it's kind of crazy how
quick my life has turned around.

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I have really spent the last
couple years focusing on myself

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and my mental health, and it shows.

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Um, you know, I have a great
relationship now, uh, with my partner.

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I have great relationships with
my family members and things.

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I travel all the time.

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I get to do this.

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And it's honestly so wonderful, but
I attribute a lot of it to finding

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the support that I needed and really
focusing on myself and my mental health.

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I love that.

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Becks: And that's what I was going to say.

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What advice do you have, you know,
for listeners who are struggling or

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have had You know, some traumatic
experiences in turning around their life.

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Like, was there a key, like, nugget,
takeaway, like a mantra, if you will,

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that you kind of defined in those
dark moments and that you could share?

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Kyrie Blaney: You know, I would just
tell them that it's okay to, like, sit

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in your feelings with it for a little
bit, but don't let it be forever.

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And make sure that you find the groups of
people around you that are really gonna

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help you up and out of those situations.

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Cause I think the people that
you surround yourself, especially

462
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when you're going through those
hard things, is absolutely key.

463
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I couldn't have done it
without those people around me.

464
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And, you know, take the time and space
you need to work on your healing.

465
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For me, I completely quit what I
was doing for like a year and a half

466
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while I was going through everything.

467
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And I think people, especially people in
business are really afraid to do that,

468
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that they're going to lose all of the
progress that they've made over that time.

469
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Honestly, it catapulted me
forward when I came back and

470
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was like, Hey, I'm on my stuff.

471
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You know, I am ready to go.

472
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I am healed.

473
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I am like feeling like I have
a story to share and a reason

474
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a why behind what I'm doing.

475
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And I have done so amazing.

476
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That's so great.

477
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So if we

478
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Just Blane: want to find more from
you, it's the confident mompreneur.

479
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com.

480
00:23:44,260 --> 00:23:46,060
We didn't even talk about
you got books on here.

481
00:23:46,360 --> 00:23:47,460
You got books on Amazon.

482
00:23:47,470 --> 00:23:48,720
You got how many books you got out there?

483
00:23:50,350 --> 00:23:51,669
Kyrie Blaney: So I have one book.

484
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It's called the confident businesswoman
and it's a workbook that helps you go

485
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through and kind of figure out your
why behind your business, setting it

486
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up for success from the beginning, you
know, making sure that you're balancing

487
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work life with your actual life.

488
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And, um, then I also have my journal.

489
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Which is a daily panel.

490
00:24:13,370 --> 00:24:15,780
It has like a gratefulness practice in it.

491
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:20,930
It has like priority list a habit tracker
A bunch of different things in there

492
00:24:21,750 --> 00:24:25,699
Just Blane: and that's all available on
amazon through your website You got some

493
00:24:25,699 --> 00:24:29,569
other stuff on here You got all kinds
of I I want to uh plug your podcast

494
00:24:29,569 --> 00:24:35,815
one more time to the the confident
mompreneur It says, uh, well, you can

495
00:24:35,815 --> 00:24:36,885
just tell us what's, what's that about?

496
00:24:36,885 --> 00:24:39,965
It says, welcome to a podcast
that's designed to empower

497
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and inspire real women.

498
00:24:42,605 --> 00:24:43,155
I love that.

499
00:24:43,385 --> 00:24:45,345
Tell us more about that
before we get out of here.

500
00:24:46,504 --> 00:24:47,774
And how often do you do this show?

501
00:24:47,774 --> 00:24:49,854
I know we already touched on
a little bit earlier, but.

502
00:24:51,490 --> 00:24:55,710
Kyrie Blaney: Yeah, so I, I release
new podcast episodes weekly every

503
00:24:55,710 --> 00:25:00,640
Wednesday and like you kind of
said, it's a podcast to inspire real

504
00:25:00,649 --> 00:25:03,480
women and it's done by real women.

505
00:25:03,490 --> 00:25:09,129
So I love podcasts, but I always felt
like the guests that they were bringing

506
00:25:09,129 --> 00:25:11,099
on were kind of like those unattainable.

507
00:25:11,985 --> 00:25:14,995
Idealistic people, you know,
the celebrities and things

508
00:25:14,995 --> 00:25:16,185
like that, which is great.

509
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And I appreciate that.

510
00:25:17,235 --> 00:25:21,165
But I also want like real people
with real real stories that I'm

511
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like, okay, yeah, I relate to that.

512
00:25:23,005 --> 00:25:24,575
I see where you're coming from.

513
00:25:24,825 --> 00:25:28,745
And you know, I see how they kind of went
through that hard thing and came out on

514
00:25:28,745 --> 00:25:31,385
the other, other side better in some way.

515
00:25:31,715 --> 00:25:34,575
And so those are the stories
that I really try and share.

516
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Just Blane: Love that.

517
00:25:35,855 --> 00:25:39,625
You can probably, you can find that on
all major platforms, I'm assuming, right?

518
00:25:40,645 --> 00:25:40,915
Everywhere.

519
00:25:40,915 --> 00:25:41,455
Don't search for it.

520
00:25:41,755 --> 00:25:45,535
Search for the Confident Mompreneur
podcast wherever you listen to pods.

521
00:25:46,975 --> 00:25:51,505
Hey, we, we appreciate having you
on and yes, this has been so very

522
00:25:51,505 --> 00:25:56,185
Becks: much, this has been so awesome
and thank Good, yeah, yeah, thank you.

523
00:25:56,305 --> 00:26:00,955
I mean, heartfelt, and I think that is
what is so impactful and powerful about

524
00:26:00,955 --> 00:26:06,115
you and your story and everything that
you touch, because you, as I start, when

525
00:26:06,115 --> 00:26:08,305
we started, I said, you are so authentic.

526
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:13,720
And really, really appreciate that being
vulnerable with all of those experiences

527
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,910
is not always the easiest things.

528
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,710
Thank you so much for
being on the share on this.

529
00:26:19,229 --> 00:26:21,179
Thank you so much for
being on the show and

530
00:26:21,180 --> 00:26:22,230
Kyrie Blaney: sharing your story.

531
00:26:23,510 --> 00:26:25,180
Thank you guys so much for having me.

532
00:26:25,180 --> 00:26:26,860
I was so excited when you reached out.

533
00:26:26,900 --> 00:26:29,080
So I, I really appreciate it.

534
00:26:29,379 --> 00:26:29,439
Yeah,

535
00:26:29,779 --> 00:26:30,259
Just Blane: absolutely.

536
00:26:30,389 --> 00:26:30,870
Anytime.

537
00:26:31,529 --> 00:26:32,129
Anytime.

538
00:26:32,129 --> 00:26:32,699
Becks: Truly.

539
00:26:32,709 --> 00:26:35,829
If you have a message, that is one
thing before we go, we'll wrap.

540
00:26:35,989 --> 00:26:40,089
Um, do you, do you teach any workshops
or anything like that, that we

541
00:26:40,089 --> 00:26:41,329
need to know about any upcoming

542
00:26:41,329 --> 00:26:41,639
Kyrie Blaney: events?

543
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,730
I have lots of upcoming events.

544
00:26:45,790 --> 00:26:51,240
So the SAFE project that I just talked
about is, uh, actually competing in a

545
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,679
competition at the University of Wyoming.

546
00:26:54,679 --> 00:26:57,490
It's called the Spark Tank Competition.

547
00:26:57,869 --> 00:27:02,740
Um, so I'll be speaking on behalf of them
about, you know, their role in everything

548
00:27:02,740 --> 00:27:08,260
that they did for me and, um, just what
an amazing organization that they are.

549
00:27:08,750 --> 00:27:15,025
Um, I'm I am also doing a virtual
summit which is called the Hike Like a

550
00:27:15,155 --> 00:27:21,185
Woman Summit, um, and I'll be talking
about my mental health journey and kind

551
00:27:21,185 --> 00:27:25,855
of how the outdoors really helped me
through that because I'm very outdoorsy.

552
00:27:26,004 --> 00:27:28,905
We were talking about some of the
pictures from my glacier trip actually.

553
00:27:30,865 --> 00:27:35,835
Um, then I will also be doing
a entrepreneurship competition

554
00:27:35,865 --> 00:27:37,595
at the University of Wyoming.

555
00:27:38,425 --> 00:27:42,585
I'll be speaking, um, at the judges
panel and then I will also have

556
00:27:42,585 --> 00:27:44,294
a booth set up outside of it too.

557
00:27:45,165 --> 00:27:48,394
And you can come and see all
of the cool students, uh,

558
00:27:48,415 --> 00:27:50,054
businesses that are up and coming.

559
00:27:51,394 --> 00:27:51,574
That

560
00:27:51,574 --> 00:27:52,514
Becks: is awesome.

561
00:27:52,515 --> 00:27:54,425
All right.

562
00:27:54,794 --> 00:27:56,615
When I asked about that,
you're not kidding.

563
00:27:56,615 --> 00:27:58,054
You had to like check your calendar.

564
00:27:58,085 --> 00:27:58,455
Yeah.

565
00:27:58,514 --> 00:27:58,794
Yeah.

566
00:27:58,825 --> 00:28:03,084
Kyrie Blaney: I love that.

567
00:28:03,084 --> 00:28:05,644
I love

568
00:28:05,645 --> 00:28:05,905
Just Blane: it.

569
00:28:06,115 --> 00:28:06,564
I love it.

570
00:28:06,564 --> 00:28:09,645
Thanks so much for joining us again and
we're going to, we'll be in touch again.

571
00:28:09,695 --> 00:28:10,064
I promise.