The One About MOMentum w/ Tina Salisbury (AUDIO ONLY)


Empowerment and Balance: Tina Salisbury's Approach to Life Coaching
This episode marks the return of Just Blane to the show. The hosts announce the ongoing Daybreak Business Community networking events and an upcoming location change to Harmon's upstairs. They introduce guest Tina Salisbury, a life and performance coach who specializes in helping working mothers balance their careers and personal life for a more fulfilling existence. Salisbury shares her journey from a corporate career to life coaching, highlighting the struggles of balancing work and family life, and the concept of 'mom guilt'. The episode discusses her program MOMentum, designed to help women overcome these challenges and find balance. Additionally, the hosts touch on societal roles and expectations for women and the importance of personal belief systems in achieving change. The episode closes with details on Salisbury’s upcoming summit aimed at empowering women to live extraordinary lives by tackling limiting beliefs and mom guilt.
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00:00 Reunion and Reflections: Back Together After Adventures
00:35 Celebrating International Women's Day and Empowerment
00:55 Daybreak Business Community Announcements
02:21 Introducing Tina Salisbury: Life and Performance Coach
04:18 Tina's Journey: From Corporate to Coaching
07:55 Momentum Group: Empowering Working Moms
09:42 Exploring the 'Why' Behind Women's Challenges
18:23 The Upcoming Momentum Summit: A Deep Dive into Mom Guilt and More
24:47 How to Connect with Tina Salisbury and Closing Thoughts
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Oh, yes, we're back.
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We're back together.
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Becks.
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This is the first time in three weeks
or something It's been a minute like
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you were off in fiji, you know, I was
over in twerks and cacos Right, right
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Was what was going on It was wild
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We had the international women's day show
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It was great.
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Some great minds coming together
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We're still going with that.
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That's right.
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That's what I want to continue to do.
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And as you see, we've got another
empowered woman with us right now.
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Tina Salisbury.
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We'll get to her.
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First up though, we've got
a couple of announcements.
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Yes, we do.
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Daybreak Business Community
networking events.
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Still going down every Wednesday.
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1 o'clock p.
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to 2.
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30 p.
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Right now, we've got two more Wednesdays.
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Today, if you're listening
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And then Wednesday the 27th.
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of March.
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I had to make sure, I had to look.
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I had to make sure we were still But we
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And then we'll move in locations.
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1 to 2.
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30 Biscott's of March.
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And then, are we announcing
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We might as well.
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You know what?
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Because we're going through a complete
overhaul of the Daybreak Business
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Community, the DBC Networking Events.
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That's right.
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We're moving to Harman's upstairs.
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We'll be at Harman's upstairs.
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The, uh, Rachel, I believe,
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They are excited.
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They're ready to have us.
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We're ready to be there.
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We're ready to be there.
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So.
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1st of April, yeah, that's
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And I'm going to just throw
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announcing big changes with DBC.
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We're getting a website.
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I love it.
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We got the preview there today.
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What other announcements do we have?
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Are there anything else before
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We have so many people
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The next month is going to be fantastic.
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We've got some great guests lined up.
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I'm not going to give that away just yet.
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But yeah, we've got some fantastic
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Alright, let's get to
our great guest today.
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Tina Salisbury.
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Welcome to the show.
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Welcome.
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Welcome to Radio Daybreak.
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Hi.
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Thank you guys so much.
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I love so much of what I see in your show.
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So thank you so much.
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I mean, I'm really excited to be here
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Excited to have you.
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First up, just top level view.
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Tell us what you do.
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Yeah, I am a mom and wife, first of all.
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So I have five kids at home.
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I've been married for 23 amazing years.
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And, uh, I am a life
and performance coach.
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So what that means really is I help
people to really understand where they are
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currently, why they're doing what they do,
how to really incorporate and understand.
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How our mind works and how to start
shifting things so that we can actually
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feel better about what we're doing,
which then starts to allow us to act
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and do more of what we want to do.
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So I work mostly with, um, amazing groups
of working mothers and really their
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main Um, I think pain point is I guess
what I would call it is really this
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desire to have more balance in their
life to create more instead of just
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feeling successful in their careers.
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Um, they want to feel successful in
their careers, but not at the lack of
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being a great mom and being a great wife.
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Um, because it's easy to feel like
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we're taking away from something else.
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So we want to create that synergy.
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I call it your and lifestyle.
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Have both right.
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And be really great at both.
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I love it.
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I love that because balance.
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It's something we all look for.
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Like it's, it's hard to find.
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And I love that you're helping women
find that balance and not feeling
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like they are just one thing.
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Like you got to pick one thing.
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So you're teaching people how they
can actually balance their life.
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How did you come to like,
how did this happen?
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What's your story to get here?
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Yeah, I am a 20 year veteran working
mom myself and For the first 13 years.
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I worked in a corporate position.
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I loved it.
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I worked with business development and
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at it multiple six figure income, but no
matter how many Awards that I acquired,
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how many trips I earned, how big my
paycheck was, um, every Sunday night.
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I would cry.
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I would cry as I looked at Monday
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You know, Friday was this magical moment
of I get to fully immerse myself as a mom.
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I get to fully give myself to my family.
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The Sunday scaries.
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The Sunday scaries is what that is, right?
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Hey, we've all been there.
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Watch them for that, right?
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Like your Friday, you look
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You haven't, you couldn't put
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cause you've just been so busy.
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Like I could be really great at work.
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Those days where I was trying to.
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Really kill it at both
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So again, living into either being great
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feeling defeated and being, um, great
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So it even led me to, Give up this
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career, um, because I really got to
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only way I can fully show up as the
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which was the most important piece
of my life, was to get that away.
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To give that work piece away.
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could make myself not feel enough in.
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really hard because, you know, working
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I love that piece of me.
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I love problem solving.
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I love being a solution provider.
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So, um, a few years ago, I actually,
after kind of trying some other at
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home business opportunities, decided
to have this opportunity really
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presented to me to, um, to go to school,
get, get certified as a life coach.
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really thought about what
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do I want to do with this?
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Who do I want to serve?
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I wanted to help all of those moms
out there who felt like me, right?
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There's a lot.
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Weekly feel the Sunday stories.
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Yeah, who just feel like, you know,
they have to make this choice.
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understand what really is going on
underneath those feelings to know that
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we even could have a choice, right?
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It could be a different way.
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We don't have to feel that way.
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So I think to give that gift back of
helping people just with that awareness
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and then also gain clarity about what
is important to them, what matters,
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is just, this is the calling I've
been waiting for all my life, right?
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I am just really enjoying
having so much fun.
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stepping into this, growing myself,
finding balance myself, but giving
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all of this back to, to just this
amazing super power that women are.
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You can see that on your
face when you talk about it.
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You know, you just radiate and the
big smile that you have, it just
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brings a lot of joy to your life.
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You can see that.
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Um, I, so within that, all that's.
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The story, how you got here, you
created a group called Momentum.
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So I decided in working with working
moms to start with a group program.
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So I do one on one coaching, but I really,
really love this group program because it
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gives women the element of being able to
be seen and to work on their solutions.
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Yet there's so much power when
we do that together, because
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when alone, we feel very alone.
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When we start to connect and, you
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got someone else who's like, Oh my
gosh, I deal with that same thing.
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Or I felt that way before.
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And there's so much power, whether
or not we're being coached directly,
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just to learn from each other's story
and to build a community, right?
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We call it the sisterhood and, um, to
really like celebrate each other, to help
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each other know we're not alone and to,
um, find a community of like minded women.
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Because Again, there's so many of us who
are living in these limiting stories that
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we don't even know our decisions, right?
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So putting ourselves powerfully in a group
where people, we want to stand up, we
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want to change, we want to own this, we
want to grow, I think is really important.
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So the group program is really, really,
um, helps strengthen that, right?
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Help you get clarity.
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about where you are, understand what you
really want to, where you want to go.
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And then we have this gap
in between that, right?
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This chasm.
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It's like, how do we get there?
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And that's what momentum does is all about
helping us to be clear on that, helping
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us to set aligned goals with that vision,
and then having the tools and support
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the coaching to be able to step into it.
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Let me ask you this.
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It's going to be a hard question.
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I'm a white man.
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So We don't know, but I
want to get it out there.
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Why do you think, like, women
have been boxed in like this?
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Like, what, what is it that makes it,
makes it that train of thought that you
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don't think you can do, you, you, you can
do multiple things or whatever it may be?
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Who, who, who told us that?
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Like, who said that?
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Is it society?
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What is it, what do you think it is, Tina?
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And Becks, I'd like to hear both of you.
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Yeah, this is I think this is a good
perspective for everyone because You
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know, there's no wrong answer here.
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Whatever our perspective is that's
holding us tight is what's Tight, but
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I definitely I mean we can go clear
back to Like the 1920s woman who had
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to step into the workforce, who, you
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the house, everything in the family,
took care of all of the people.
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And then because all of the men went off
to war, we had to step into this role
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called working outside the home as well.
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And, you know, as all of those
people, Oh, men started coming
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back and reclaiming those jobs.
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You know, I think women found that I
actually love this piece of me, right?
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I love this part of me who
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Yet, it also felt like in order
to have that, we had to be the one
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personally to be able to handle
all of the other things too, right?
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We wanted this piece for ourselves,
yet we never allowed ourselves
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to change those boundaries.
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We never allowed ourselves to let go
of all of those other responsibilities
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or find other ways that they could be
taken care of without it having to be us.
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So we just started carrying all of it.
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And definitely, I mean, you
hear stories from your grandma's
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generation, your mom's generation.
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We see it on the meat, at the media.
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We see it on the news.
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We see it on social media where
it's like, look how perfect.
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And I can do all of it.
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Right.
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And we see this picture of this
life of being able to carry it
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all of needing to carry it all.
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So we all feel like I, if I'm not
carrying it all, there's something
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wrong with me or I'm not enough.
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Stand into that.
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So yeah, let's blame society, right?
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Because it really is this perpetuation
of, you know, society saying this is
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the way it should be, but also right.
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We have to start to claim the
ownership that the people that hold
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us captive in that is ourselves.
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And I always feel good.
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Right.
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It's hard.
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But you know, if we, if we want to
change it, we have to start changing it.
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And the beautiful thing is that with
each woman who says, I'm going to
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do this in a way that feels good
for me, it gives some, another woman
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permission to do that for her, right?
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So we are going to be able to start this
wave, this trend of changing the world
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and women can show it best for themselves
and their family and their work.
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I think, I think we are on the cusp
of changing those boundaries, and
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I can tell you right now, you guys
aren't, and I say it like this, from
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a man to a woman, you're not the
only ones that want some change and
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want some boundaries, new boundaries.
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There's a whole lot of us out
there that, that are like minded.
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We, we want to see some stuff change.
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It needs to change.
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It should have changed a long
time ago, but it's still here.
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Becks, what do you got to add with that?
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I want to hear your I want to just say
one thing while we're on this topic and
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I'm Thank you for the question Blane,
because that is not an easy question,
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but it's one that does need to be asked.
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And I think, Tina, to your point,
it can be, yes, definitely a
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societal thing and we carry that
with us generationally, right?
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We see that and then it lands solely
in the way that we were raised and
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taught and the teachings and Yeah,
well there's regional, there's
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regional, I mean, if you're Yeah.
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Let me jump in.
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Let me jump in.
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If you're in Utah,
there's a regional thing.
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There's the religion thing.
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There's that that kind of
dictates some most things here.
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If you're in the south,
it's the same thing.
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It's the Bible belt.
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But when I went to LA, I was in a melting
pot and I know people say, Oh, California.
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Oh, this and that.
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I learned a lot out there that I would
not have learned in the Bible belt.
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I would not have learned
right here in Utah.
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How do we get those kinds of minds to
kind of all come together, you know?
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I don't want to jump in and interrupt, but
go back to what you were saying, Becks.
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What I was going to say is, there's
a lot, it's multi faceted, for sure.
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But what it ultimately comes down to, and
what I, Think, you know, Tina also touched
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on is you gotta dive deep personally.
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Hmm.
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This is why I love what she's doing
with these groups is we may not
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know what those limiting beliefs
are or that we even have them.
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It's just the way it is.
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It's the way it's been.
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It's the way you were taught.
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It's the culture, it's the religion,
it's the fill in the blank.
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We may not know, but it's
okay to break out of that.
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And I love what you said as well, when
you see other women doing the thing.
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It was the, another woman
permission to do so.
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So I think a lot of it Blane for
me personally was limiting beliefs
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because of where I was raised and how
I was raised in a very paternalistic
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society, household, you know?
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So it was like, be quiet.
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I'm the man of the home.
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You know, that's respect
for me as the father.
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So I think that that, you know, for
me personally, was where that was.
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And if you don't know, you don't know.
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You didn't know anything different.
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And here's the important thing
too, um, and hopefully this will
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be freeing, because I think a lot
of times we might get stuck in
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that, well, where did this start?
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Or how did I become this way?
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Or what was it that actually, you
know, made me think like this?
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Which is awesome that we're
starting to think like that.
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But the truth of it is, We
actually don't have to know.
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We don't have to know the why
behind it or why it happened.
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If we want to make a change, if we
want to have a different belief,
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if we want to step into a different
story, we can just give ourselves
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permission to do it too, right?
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So sometimes it is really
helpful to understand the why.
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And you know, there's obviously
both coaching and therapy that
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are really helpful for that.
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In different ways, but
we also, I love that.
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We actually can just say today.
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I'm going to decide like, this
is the way that I want to live.
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This is the way I want my life to go.
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And I'm going to go find solutions.
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I'm going to see how that's
possible for me and just give
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ourselves permission to adult.
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Right.
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I call it.
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Say, you know what?
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I just don't have to go back
to that if I don't want to.
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I can just choose to move
forward with this new story.
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And that's pretty cool
that we can do that.
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So, so you're saying,
did I, did I catch this?
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You said that you don't think that
the why is, it matters really.
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You don't care what the why
is or how I, how we got here.
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It doesn't have to, right?
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Sometimes it can be helpful.
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I think.
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to see that.
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And, you know, again, like a lot of, um,
a lot of therapy is built on that, right?
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Understanding why, why, why we
are kind of locked into some
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of the things that we want to.
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But actually, yes, we don't need
to understand that because our
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mind can powerfully move us forward
when we choose a different story,
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we choose a different belief.
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We can start acting on that belief.
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And as we start acting on it,
right, then it's like physiological.
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Our body starts to understand, Oh, this
is who we're choosing to be now, right?
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And we can start making decisions
and actions aligning with that.
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It's not always going to be easy, right?
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Because we're always going to be.
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going to kind of experience this
dance between what we've practiced,
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the behaviors we've practiced,
the thoughts we've practiced, the
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beliefs we've practiced, and what we
want to stand tall in now, because
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that's not as familiar to us, right?
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It might feel really true to our
soul, like this actually is who I
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am, but because we've practiced being
something or somebody else, Right?
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It's easy for us to kind of blow back
into that or want to get pulled back into
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that because it's more comfortable for us.
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Yeah, let me, let me, let me play devil's
advocate here for a second and it's gonna
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be in a positive way So whatever you want
to call it But I have to say that I do
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think that the how and the why we got
here is very important at least to my, to
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this, to me because I want to know that
To see how we don't go back to that again.
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Right.
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If I don't know, if I don't know
what that is, we may not know.
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I was going to say in that regards
to really understand like what
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I want to try to avoid, right.
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What boundaries I want
to create moving forward.
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Absolutely.
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That can be, but to understand it
as a reason we need to wait until we
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understand it to be able to move forward.
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Okay.
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That we don't need to.
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So yeah, we can agree on that.
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I love that.
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I love that, but, but it needs.
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Be out there and Your your
your event coming up momentum.
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Let's not be let's not call it momentum
because I love how the graphics
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have mom Always anyway, I see it.
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It's different.
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It's set apart.
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It's a different color
than the rest of the word.
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I love that It stands out.
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It's the next next level summit
and Basically, you're gonna help
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people get rid of mom guilt.
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We didn't even mention the word mom guilt
yet The the hashtag mom guilt, but you
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we've touched on it, but you're gonna
help people Oh With that, at this summit,
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what else can we see at this summit?
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Yeah, so definitely, I mean, we want
to, the biggest thing I think people are
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going to walk away from is this awareness
of why do we feel this way, right?
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Why, when we want to create something
different or we even know the actions
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that we want to take, why is it that
we sometimes don't step into that
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or what prevents us from doing that?
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And a lot of that is just really
clarity and understanding.
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Um, Who, where we are now and where
we want to go and how to, how to,
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again, bridge that gap, which is
a lot of the belief system, right?
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So, you know, we often give a lot of
power to our circumstances, like when
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this happened, then I can have this.
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Or when I'm finished with this stage
of young toddlerhood, then I'll be able
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to go back to work and do more, right?
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And we find ourselves in this position
to have to wait for something in life
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to happen for us to feel a certain way.
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Um, so when I can tell you what, if that's
not true, it doesn't have to be true ever.
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Like you can actually feel good
and happy and joyful, even without
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those circumstances changing.
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You can start to create the
things that you want, even though.
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Life is throwing you this challenge
or you have this obstacle or
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you have this roadblock, right?
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It's all how we choose to align our focus.
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So I'm going to teach you how
to be able to create that focus.
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And most importantly, you're going to
learn a lot about your identity, right?
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You've practiced being, or who
you think you should be, but
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who you actually want to be.
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Um, and I think that permission to
allow women to dream a little bit more.
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To allow ourselves to express our
true desires and what we truly
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want, um, is really important.
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Because again, when we, when
we, we think when we have that,
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we need to also know the how.
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But you don't need to know the how, you
actually just need to know really what
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you want and feel confident in that.
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And the how will start to
appear to go down that path.
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So being able to help you to see
that bigger picture for yourself,
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but also really have the tools to
understand how do we, how do we
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allow ourselves to move forward?
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If we decide we don't want to feel
unhappy about this, how can we choose
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a different direction, a different
path and way to think about it?
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So.
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Tons of clarity, tons of alignment, and
just really, I think, coming home, right?
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Sometimes when you really find that
truth of yourself, it feels like
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that knowing, that coming home,
that soul work, um, and we don't
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have to give ourselves permission.
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To do that because we're
so busy doing, right?
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I need to be doing something else or
there's always somebody else's needs
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to take take advantage of and So
like just giving yourself permission.
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I just celebrate every time Somebody signs
up for this because you even saying yes
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before you even get into the room Is a
message to yourself that you matter and
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that is to be celebrated and whatever you
come out of that room with is a bonus to
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you have been already telling yourself
like I am worth spending some time on.
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I am worth stepping away from all of
the other things that I know need my
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attention to just spend some time for me.
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And you know, live events are
really great for that, right?
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Because it gives us permission to Step
away from life and to totally immerse
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ourselves in what we're there to do.
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Well, let's talk about when it
is because I know it's coming up.
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Yeah.
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So that's happening this coming Friday.
456
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So March 22nd, and it will be in Murry.
457
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Um, so great location.
458
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Great.
459
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Um, on state street and, and.
460
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Um, 5400 South, so very accessible.
461
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We're going to be meeting from 10 to 4.
462
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And, um, you know, again, like,
such a great opportunity for people
463
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to step in and just have some
curiosity with this event, right?
464
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We're going to start in, um, Just dispel
the judgment, put aside all of the,
465
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all of the guilt and really just allow
ourselves to see how we can have more of
466
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the life that we want that's possible.
467
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So I love that.
468
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The taglines right here.
469
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It says you are meant to live
an extraordinary life, handle
470
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life's challenges and feel good.
471
00:23:06,764 --> 00:23:12,356
Say yes to work, family and you in
cycles of self doubt and mom guilt.
472
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Feel confident in the next
level of who you want to be.
473
00:23:16,709 --> 00:23:17,449
That sounds awesome.
474
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You gotta go to go.
475
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tinasalisbury.
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com forward slash momentum.
477
00:23:26,179 --> 00:23:27,089
We'll put the link in there.
478
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They don't, don't, if you're driving
out there, don't write, don't, don't
479
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start, start trying to type that in.
480
00:23:30,979 --> 00:23:32,569
We'll have the link in
the show notes for that.
481
00:23:32,569 --> 00:23:36,049
So you guys can go sign up for
this, get a ticket for this
482
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virtually, virtually or in person.
483
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If you're out there, if my people
in Sweden right now want to sign
484
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up for this, they can, right?
485
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Cause we've got a virtual.
486
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Yeah.
487
00:23:45,489 --> 00:23:47,609
It's so nice that it's going
to be offered virtually.
488
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It's going to be offered live.
489
00:23:49,029 --> 00:23:53,789
So, you know, I know not everyone can
step away from work necessarily on Friday,
490
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But you can craft a specific day and time
for you to put aside to step into this.
491
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So I'm really excited that it's
offered virtually as well as in person.
492
00:24:03,439 --> 00:24:08,279
Um, we also wanted to say thank you
to everyone watching this and offer,
493
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um, a discount for you as well.
494
00:24:10,609 --> 00:24:16,249
So when you go to check out, make sure
you use the code momentum, 10 momentum,
495
00:24:16,249 --> 00:24:19,339
all capitals, and that'll give you 10 off.
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Whether you register virtually or in
person, you'll get that opportunity.
497
00:24:24,024 --> 00:24:27,434
You know what that'll that'll be we're
putting that at the bottom of the screen
498
00:24:27,434 --> 00:24:32,959
right now so people can see that they
can get the The Momentum 10 for discount.
499
00:24:33,279 --> 00:24:33,629
Love it.
500
00:24:34,199 --> 00:24:35,039
And that'll be awesome.
501
00:24:35,129 --> 00:24:37,229
Like, and that's for a
virtual ticket or in person.
502
00:24:37,229 --> 00:24:40,269
So if you're actually right
here in the area, what Salt
503
00:24:40,269 --> 00:24:42,679
Lake Valley, come on out, right?
504
00:24:42,709 --> 00:24:44,479
Like we want the more the merrier.
505
00:24:44,809 --> 00:24:45,179
Yeah.
506
00:24:45,289 --> 00:24:45,499
Be with us.
507
00:24:46,219 --> 00:24:47,209
Get the message out there.
508
00:24:47,209 --> 00:24:47,819
I love this.
509
00:24:47,859 --> 00:24:49,939
Thank you so much, Tina,
for jumping on with us.
510
00:24:50,589 --> 00:24:52,279
Is there, how else can
we get in touch with you?
511
00:24:52,279 --> 00:24:54,759
We'll, we'll put the links in
there for, for, uh, for our
512
00:24:54,779 --> 00:24:55,789
listeners and our viewers.
513
00:24:55,789 --> 00:24:56,529
Now we're on video.
514
00:24:56,699 --> 00:24:56,969
Yes.
515
00:24:56,999 --> 00:24:57,609
We're on video now.
516
00:24:57,609 --> 00:24:57,874
Yes.
517
00:24:58,024 --> 00:24:59,074
Yeah, good.
518
00:24:59,094 --> 00:25:01,404
Come and see us on social media.
519
00:25:01,444 --> 00:25:06,864
You can reach me either on Facebook or
on Instagram at Tina Salisbury Coaching.
520
00:25:07,454 --> 00:25:12,604
So, would love to see you and really
work to, one, provide just some real fun
521
00:25:12,634 --> 00:25:17,934
with motherhood on those sites as well
as some good tips and tools that you can
522
00:25:18,274 --> 00:25:22,084
Start using and also some just different
ways that we can think about it, right?
523
00:25:22,104 --> 00:25:25,624
Like asking ourselves better questions
definitely gives us better answers and
524
00:25:26,244 --> 00:25:30,974
the more that you Understand that the
more power that you give back to yourself.
525
00:25:31,014 --> 00:25:34,404
So look forward to see you there, too
I love that you just said something
526
00:25:34,434 --> 00:25:37,364
it reminds me of I just watched true
detective with Jodie Foster who's
527
00:25:37,364 --> 00:25:40,254
amazing By the way, I can't believe
she went so many years without
528
00:25:40,254 --> 00:25:41,744
getting work because of her age.
529
00:25:41,884 --> 00:25:44,894
That's what I'm hearing From Hollywood,
that's, that's awful because in this
530
00:25:44,894 --> 00:25:48,834
new True Detective, kills it, but one
of her, one of the best things that
531
00:25:48,834 --> 00:25:53,414
she continues through the show is,
you're not asking the right question.
532
00:25:53,724 --> 00:25:55,064
You're not asking, she's a detective.
533
00:25:55,254 --> 00:25:56,364
You're not asking the right question.
534
00:25:56,374 --> 00:25:57,494
What's the right question.
535
00:25:57,624 --> 00:26:02,064
And I, and I've, I've been sticking with
that lately because it's very, it's true.
536
00:26:02,074 --> 00:26:03,004
If you're powerful.
537
00:26:03,184 --> 00:26:05,534
Yeah, but I just had to throw that
out there because, you know, I'm a
538
00:26:05,604 --> 00:26:09,774
pop culture nerd, so I always like to
get those references out there, but So
539
00:26:09,984 --> 00:26:11,224
here's a good question for you, right?
540
00:26:11,224 --> 00:26:11,884
Yeah, yeah.
541
00:26:12,114 --> 00:26:15,614
Being like, oh, I want to be there
at the Momentum Summit, but I don't,
542
00:26:16,024 --> 00:26:17,704
I don't know how I can do it, right?
543
00:26:17,714 --> 00:26:22,384
Instead of asking yourself, or telling
yourself, I don't know how to do it,
544
00:26:22,424 --> 00:26:24,544
ask yourself this question instead.
545
00:26:24,554 --> 00:26:26,014
How could I do it?
546
00:26:26,024 --> 00:26:27,354
How could it be possible?
547
00:26:27,364 --> 00:26:27,884
Look at you.
548
00:26:28,219 --> 00:26:28,589
Right.
549
00:26:28,639 --> 00:26:30,409
And that is such a great question.
550
00:26:30,419 --> 00:26:33,129
Like for you, for your kids, right?
551
00:26:33,149 --> 00:26:38,199
Anytime, if your kids say, I don't
know, or that's not possible, just
552
00:26:38,219 --> 00:26:41,449
ask them, well, if it could be
possible, how could it be possible?
553
00:26:41,449 --> 00:26:44,259
It just gives ourselves permission
to come up with answers that
554
00:26:44,259 --> 00:26:45,699
don't have to be right or wrong.
555
00:26:46,099 --> 00:26:49,329
And that can actually get us
to the places that we want.
556
00:26:49,339 --> 00:26:50,809
So how could it be possible?
557
00:26:50,859 --> 00:26:53,179
One of the questions for your arsenal.
558
00:26:53,329 --> 00:26:54,079
I love that.
559
00:26:54,079 --> 00:26:55,429
Thank you for joining us today.
560
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,309
That's it for me and Becks.
561
00:26:57,349 --> 00:26:58,349
Go to RadioDaybreak.
562
00:26:58,389 --> 00:26:59,739
com for more of us.
563
00:27:01,039 --> 00:27:01,809
We got merch yet?
564
00:27:02,699 --> 00:27:03,729
Oh my gosh.
565
00:27:04,219 --> 00:27:05,029
I mean, I got the shirt.
566
00:27:05,069 --> 00:27:06,639
I got a shirt already,
but we don't have a merch.
567
00:27:06,639 --> 00:27:07,749
We don't have a merch link up yet.
568
00:27:08,649 --> 00:27:09,349
It's okay.
569
00:27:09,389 --> 00:27:09,959
It's okay.
570
00:27:09,959 --> 00:27:10,719
It'll get up soon.
571
00:27:11,149 --> 00:27:12,519
We had to just transfer.
572
00:27:12,559 --> 00:27:13,369
Merch is coming.
573
00:27:13,369 --> 00:27:16,029
Merch to be, uh, announced.
574
00:27:16,189 --> 00:27:16,729
I love it.
575
00:27:16,789 --> 00:27:17,169
I love it.
576
00:27:17,169 --> 00:27:17,869
It's on the way.
577
00:27:17,879 --> 00:27:18,659
It looks great.
578
00:27:18,889 --> 00:27:20,759
Hey, ride the wave media's
got merch coming too.
579
00:27:20,759 --> 00:27:21,829
We all got this.
580
00:27:21,829 --> 00:27:24,409
This thing's about to blow up
guys It's about to pop off for us.
581
00:27:24,409 --> 00:27:27,269
So I'm, i'm so i'm so
excited for everybody.
582
00:27:27,269 --> 00:27:32,739
It's a part of all this like this is fun
Great connections about to show the world.
583
00:27:32,989 --> 00:27:35,284
We're about to we're about
to talk to the world Love it.
584
00:27:35,284 --> 00:27:36,169
Love it.
585
00:27:36,169 --> 00:27:36,579
See you guys.